re: My 21st birthday.

<blockquote><b>Quoting tiƒƒαηy☮:</b>" He claims he's not,but acts otherwise.It's annoying,really.He called from work a minute ago & said he was sorry,& that he's just protective over me.I don't know."</blockquote>


Well, nobody is going to admit to being controlling. They really don't see that they have a problem.

And , no matter how many times you tell him it bothers you, I'd he hansnt changed yet he won't.

Quoting Destinite:" I would aks him why he thinks you need protection 24/7. Plenty of women survive without their SO up their behinds every waking moment of the day. "

I know right ! I can't stand this any longer.I gave him an ultimatum.I told him to either stop,& trust that I can handle myself,or I'll leave & go back to my mom's.I don't need to be treated like a child,I'm a grown ass woman,I know how to take care of myself.

Quoting [♥]Mrs. Morgan:" <blockquote><b>Quoting tiƒƒαηy☮:</b>" He claims he's not,but acts ... [snip!] ... see that they have a problem. And , no matter how many times you tell him it bothers you, I'd he hansnt changed yet he won't."

He doesn't seem controlling to me all the time though,it's just certain things I guess that he feels insecure about.And he needs to understand that I have nothing to do with that.His ex fiance cheated on him all the time,right in front of him,& he never saw it,I feel like I'm being punished for stuff that she did to him,& it's just not fair !

Quoting tiƒƒαηy☮:" I know right ! I can't stand this any longer.I gave him an ultimatum.I told him to either stop,& ... [snip!] ... & go back to my mom's.I don't need to be treated like a child,I'm a grown ass woman,I know how to take care of myself."

Good luck! That type of behavior is not normal or healthy. I hope you have a fantastic 21st birthday!

Quoting Destinite:" Good luck! That type of behavior is not normal or healthy. I hope you have a fantastic 21st birthday!"

Thanks,I really hope he realizes how he's acting before it's too late,& I'm gone ! I love him so much,I don't want to live without him,but I know what I deserve,& what I don't deserve ! And thank you very much ! I hope it all works out !