Would you stay or leave?

My friend called me early this morning pissed off and you know what I honestly would be too. She is a SAHM with four children(all but one under the age of 5). She said that she found two hidden cameras in the house when cleaning. Her husband had the nerve to put hidden cameras in the bedroom and living room...Omg seriously? She said he hid them pretty well but being that she the main one who cleans their home he didn't hid them good enough. I know my friend isn't cheating(hell who has time with 3 little ones running around the house). I don't think I can be with someone like that(but it's her life not mines). She said she is going to have a serious talk with him and I said don't hurt him because she can get a little crazy.

Based just on that, I wouldn't neccesarily leave, unless there were other issues and this was just the icing on the cake. I would, of course, have to have a serious talk and see what he says and go from there.

I would ask why they were placed there before I went all ape smurf.
But if it was because he thought I was cheating, I would step back and look at our relationship and see where the trust fell through and work on communicating better.

Quoting Colt's mommy:" Based just on that, I wouldn't neccesarily leave, unless there were other issues and this was just the ... [snip!] ... this was just the icing on the cake. I would, of course, have to have a serious talk and see what he says and go from there."

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Wtf   I don't think I could stay w a man that hasta spy on me in my own damn home

The cameras alone wouldn't be reason to leave.... but if the trust and communication is diminished that much it might be.

"She can get a little crazy" - Maybe he doesn't suspect her of cheating but of something to do with how she treats her kids?

There could be numerous reasons to install cameras.

If I were here, I wouldn't focus on the cameras, but the reason behind the cameras were planted.

Quoting Koltons*Momma:" Wtf   I don't think I could stay w a man that hasta spy on me in my own damn home"

yeah my ass would be out of there.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" I would ask why they were placed there before I went all ape smurf. But if it was because he thought ... [snip!] ... cheating, I would step back and look at our relationship and see where the trust fell through and work on communicating better."

thats what i would do. something had to have gone wrong if he is usually a rational man and then all of a sudden started up with this?

I can see where you ladies are coming from...if my husband did that and the way our relationship is now I would go crazy on him because I know I'm not doing anything wrong and he should know...but she can be a little crazy, a cheater no, but than again who knows if she is telling me everything but i would hope after being friends for 15 years she would tell me. I think it's just me looking at how he is as a person and a husband I would make a decision to leave but i'm not going to tell her she should leave him because like i said that's her life.

I'd actually be more concerned that he's recording their sex to make money on an amateur porn site or something similar.

Quoting Saffy Sly:" I'd actually be more concerned that he's recording their sex to make money on an amateur porn site or something similar."

The bedroom one I could see, but the living room one?

Quoting Supafly★:" "She can get a little crazy" - Maybe he doesn't suspect her of cheating but of something to do with how she treats her kids? "

oh no...not like that. when i say crazy she the type to bust a window out a car (which has happen in their relationship). I know she loves those kids and would never harm them. Hell if I knew she was doing something to my god children i'll be handling her myself

Quoting Juggernog-aholic:" The bedroom one I could see, but the living room one?"

People have sex in their living rooms. It might be their "thrill" in a house with 4 kids. It certainly is for us.