re: Got dumped:/ (vent)

Quoting eKnuckles:" <blockquote><b>Quoting risssa ♥:</b>" what does birth control have to do with ... [snip!] ... to get emotional the next time you speak, just think about your LO's needs. Oh and definetly do not spend the night there now!"

Thanks ill try and im not going over there he would come over here or he wont get to see noah.

Quoting Regina George ♡:" Run far away   he sounds like a huge mommies boy, and those are the worst. "

I know! I didnt really see he was intill i got pregnant then i got stuck -_-

Quoting Noah Edward's Mommy :" I know! I didnt really see he was intill i got pregnant then i got stuck -_-"

Trust me, I know how that is. BD was up his mothers ass, and that side didn't show till after I had LO. His mother did everything for him, the result? He's now 22, no job, and no ambitions!
And besides, even if you guys don't work out you are so young! You'll with out a doubt find someone else   I'm sure you get told that a lot, but I had my first at 16 too, and I used to hate when people told me that because I was so set on working things out with BD lol

Quoting Regina George ♡:" Trust me, I know how that is. BD was up his mothers ass, and that side didn't show till after I had ... [snip!] ... I had my first at 16 too, and I used to hate when people told me that because I was so set on working things out with BD lol"

No i couldnt get anyone. Everyone thinks im a whore at my school because i slept with 3 guys and i have a baby. But whatever Noah is my little prince  But thanks for the advice it makes me feel better 

Quoting loser mom:" I'm sorry. And please, please... sweetheart, get on birth control. "

This. Not being a bitch about it, but you need to buckle down in school, get your own presence in life without your mother or ex's mother ruling it for you. Stand up, be a big girl, you have a kid. You NEED to get some of that independence and not have others rule your life.

Quoting Noah Edward's Mommy :" Well my boyfreind broke up with me today  Its a very long. My boyfriends mother called my mother today ... [snip!] ... down and told him that he just said you should of said but oh well i said its over so its over  I dont know what to do "

I am going to say some things that are going to sound harsh but, they are what you need to hear.

#1. You are 15. You have a loooonnnggg life ahead of you.
#2. You guys have a child. You no longer get to behave like children. If he is going to act like a child, let him go back to the play ground. You have got to get it together and step it up for the sake of your son.
#3. I know you are hurting over the m/c but honestly, that is the best thing that could have happened at this point. You are so young and already have one child.

I have a feeling that you and your boyfriend will get back together in a few days or so and all this drama will be over. In the mean time, remember that these types of games need to cease. If he doesn't want to be an adult, that is his problem. Don't play the games. Someone has to be the adult in the situation.

Quoting Noah Edward's Mommy :" No i couldnt get anyone. Everyone thinks im a whore at my school because i slept with 3 guys and i have ... [snip!] ... with 3 guys and i have a baby. But whatever Noah is my little prince  But thanks for the advice it makes me feel better "

Of course you could! It seems hard to believe now, but you will find someone who makes you happy <3 I know it's hard being a mom so young, lot's of judgement from classmates, but you know what? They won't even think twice about it in a few months!
If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me  

Quoting Noah Edward's Mommy :" No i couldnt get anyone. Everyone thinks im a whore at my school because i slept with 3 guys and i have ... [snip!] ... with 3 guys and i have a baby. But whatever Noah is my little prince  But thanks for the advice it makes me feel better "

In order to gain the respect of others, you need to respect yourself. Focus on your LO & school & everything else will fall into place. You're young. If you & you BD don't get back together (which I'm sure you will in a few days anyway) then who cares if you can't find anyone right away? You have SO much time.

Quoting Not tellin:" I am going to say some things that are going to sound harsh but, they are what you need to hear. #1. ... [snip!] ... If he doesn't want to be an adult, that is his problem. Don't play the games. Someone has to be the adult in the situation. "

That wasnt harsh at all. But i really am the only adult i feel like when it comes to him and his mother. And i still would of been okay with being pregnant i would never of wished to lose that child at all. If it would of came down to it i would of gave that baby up. But i do understand what you mean about being a grow up. He was for like the first month Noah was born.

Oh pQuoting Noah Edward's Mommy :" No i couldnt get anyone. Everyone thinks im a whore at my school because i slept with 3 guys and i have ... [snip!] ... with 3 guys and i have a baby. But whatever Noah is my little prince  But thanks for the advice it makes me feel better "

Oh please!! You are far from a whore! There are girls out there with more on their lipstick case than they let on. They just like to deflect attention somewhere else. The only thing is you got "caught" so to speak. Ignore that crap and go about your day.

Quoting Regina George ♡:" Of course you could! It seems hard to believe now, but you will find someone who makes you happy <3 ... [snip!] ... but you know what? They won't even think twice about it in a few months! If you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me  "

Thank you i will 

Quoting Ryleigh's Mama ♥:" In order to gain the respect of others, you need to respect yourself. Focus on your LO & school ... [snip!] ... (which I'm sure you will in a few days anyway) then who cares if you can't find anyone right away? You have SO much time."

Thank you  and i am here in Aug. im going to a career center so ill be doing some collage stuff to.

Quoting Noah Edward's Mommy :" Thank you  and i am here in Aug. im going to a career center so ill be doing some collage stuff to."

That's great! You're on the right track. Stick with it mama & don't let the immaturity & selfishness steer you away. Life will be so much easier later down the road if you just focus on bettering it now.

Quoting Ryleigh's Mama ♥:" That's great! You're on the right track. Stick with it mama & don't let the immaturity & selfishness ... [snip!] ... & selfishness steer you away. Life will be so much easier later down the road if you just focus on bettering it now."

I will try. Thanks 

Quoting Ryleigh's Mama ♥:" In order to gain the respect of others, you need to respect yourself. Focus on your LO & school ... [snip!] ... (which I'm sure you will in a few days anyway) then who cares if you can't find anyone right away? You have SO much time."