Quoting loser mom:" Tell me about it! I only went that route one time, learned my lesson fast. I'm sooo glad my ... [snip!] ... dating (early 30s), but there's just not any jealousy or trust issues. I guess it's because we really are just best friends. "
My husband and I are older too. We got married in our mid 20's and are in our early- mid 30's right now. It is so silly to see all the jealousy games. Being jealous isn't going to stop someone from cheating or leaving. It is just going to shove them out the door that much faster. lol