Quoting BareFootBabyMaker:" He shouldn't have put his hands on you...but, why did you start packing his stuff up right away? Sounds ... [snip!] ... to tell you that something wasn't right maybe you should have listened instead of telling him to leave and packing his stuff."
he has "issues?" If you mean his issue he is an abuser I guess then. She should have listened to him? I do not think so, OP you did nothing wrong, HE was in the wrong when he put his hands on you. Good for you for calling the police and pressing charges!