SO is irritating me today. He has such a smurfing attitude. I can't stand him at all today. We currently live with my parents for another 2-3 months while I save up a little more. My mom asked him if he could please throw the trash (only thing she ever asks) and he said ok and went to the room. I usually do everything to help out and after 20 mins he still hadn't done it. It was full and she was cleaning up. I said please throw the trash for my mom really quick she needs to throw things away. Said I will. Another ten mins and I just get up and go do it. Soon as he saw me grab my shoes he said I was gonna go do it. Umm after 30 mins its rude to keep her waiting for the ONE thing she has asked you to do. Ya its your day off but that will take a minute. Then I set DD down to grab her nail clippers and am just saying to her I need to clip her nails they're so long again so fast. He picks her up and walks away with her. Ummm dude. Come on. You were right there and heard me... Rude.
Am I being irrational? I never nag. Ever. Just wanted him to do ONE thing.
<blockquote><b>Quoting *B & D Mommy*:</b>" That would irritate me too! It is pretty rude of him not to do something she asked of him right away. Maybe he is having an off day?"</blockquote>
Right? I just found it rude.. they do so much for us and it would take a second. Everyone has an off day, totally get it. I have them a lot. But just don't not do something that my mom asks of you, ya know?
Leave him, it is obvious he isn't really a man, he has a lot of growing up to do. It doesn't matter if it is his day off, he needs to do stuff around the house all the same. I don't understand how guys like this can be running around with any woman they set their sights on. Kick him to the Curb. You are a mother, a responsible person, (From what I read at least) and are worth far more than he is. Find a real man!