Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" If he agreed that you should be staying home than he has no right to e throwing it in your face."
My situation is a bit different, my old job is paying me unemployment right now so I am actually taking care of the kids, the house, and paying all the utilities, while DH is a full time student and paying the rent. But it has been to where I wasn't paying anything before. Our agreement is he pays the bills, and my job is the kids and all household chores. Since I am paying the utilities now, he takes the kids duties once a week to give me a break on one of his days off school. If he ever threw it in my face I'd tell him I'll happily trade places! We have before! Lol