re: Stay at home moms...

That's pathetic... first of all, he's supposed to be a MAN. Men shouldn't be jealous because their wife isn't working. Your not bringing in money, but you're also doing a lot. One day I'd completely ignore all the SAHM jobs, besides caring for the baby, and when he comes home bitching, be like see- this is home without me here to run it...

He sounds just like my dad.. He is always saying smurf like that to my mom because she can't find a job right now. It's not ok. It's even worse that it was his idea for you to stay home.

I'm sorry.  

NO matter what its not ok, but he's probably stressed. its hard having one income. my hubby use to talk crap, but recently we've talked n talked like literally for a week and got a lot accomplished. if he's in a good mood and willing to talk, talk to him and see what he wants. you have to both put pride aside and be realistic about things. good luck.

sounds to me like he's a controlling ass who doesn't want you to work because he doesn't trust you.

Quoting Destiel:" sounds to me like he's a controlling ass who doesn't want you to work because he doesn't trust you. "

This ^ pretty much sums it all up..