how much does sex matter to you?

In a relationship?
What if it's not good?
What about in the guy is very small/big?
Do you have him try and get you off other ways?

just wondering what others think about this
I was talking about it with some friends and got very different answers from them all.

I'm very sexual so it matters alot to me.

I could probably go the rest of my life without sex.

Sometimes I want it but I have really no desire to have sex anymore.

Meh my sex drive isn't what it used to be, so it's not a big deal. As for a guy being to small or to big, as long as he makes sure I get off one way or another I could care less.

Sex is pretty important to me, I need that physical connection. If it was impossible for my SO I'd live but he's completely able so I gotta have the D.

Quoting Hairspray:" I'm very sexual so it matters alot to me."

thiss   if I wasn't PP and healing I would get my freak on by now lol

I'm single right now but it is very important to me. I have a crazy high sex drive

I've actually broken up with guys who sucked in bed. And yes, size matters.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Saffy Sly:</b>" I could probably go the rest of my life without sex. Sometimes I want it but I have really no desire to have sex anymore."</blockquote>




   

It's important to me because its important to my SO.

Not even remotely.

Not a whole lot. I love feeling that closeness with DH don't get me wrong, and maybe its because I have extremely low sex drive right now, but we've always had other ways that we're close.

Sex is very important to me.
Every guy I've been with long term has been quite well endowed. I think I would be a bit disappointed if I ended up with someone who was on the smaller side unless they REALLY knew how to work it.

I just don't have any problems at all in the sex department with my SO...he's seriously the best sex I've ever had. I can't enjoy a relationship as much if the sex isn't good.

Sex is very important to me as well. It's not the most important but it's taking love and putting it in physical form. It's very intimate. When it's not good it can often lead to other problems in a relationship. As far as size goes, it's nice to have something satisfying but not necessary. As long as he can get you ff and make you feel loved physically in other ways.

I wouldn't be with someone I didn't have good sex with.

Very important. If its not happening at least 5 days a week, I'm not interested.

Sex isn't the most important thing for my marriage, but. I don't really think of sex equaling love either. For our marriage there are far more important intimate things like kissing, cuddling and holding hands. That being said sex does play a part in our marriage just not the only or most important part.

If sex was not good and I really loved the guy I would teach him. For example, my husband was a virgin when I met him so I basically taught him what did and did not feel good. Just like he taught me how to give decent BJ. We are pretty open with talking about it.

As far as penis goes, doesn't matter size, shape or whatever else. If I love a guy just doesn't matter to me. I'm a very emotional person so a lot of appearance aspect doesn't matter in my opinion lol.

I rarely orgasm, and it's not through penetration. With two little ones we don't always have time to "get me off" and I'm fine with it. I still enjoy sex with my husband without organism.