re: Ok so am I doing this for the wrong reasons?

Idk how it is in your state but some places you go for a consultation and ultrasound and then make an appointment for the following day if you decide you still want it. Maybe that would be a better option for you?
I just really feel like if you're unsure you shouldn't jump into it because you could easily regret it afterwards and there's no going back.

I know I don't want to be a single mom but I'm also prolife and I know I'd not be able to do adoption I'm too emotional

Quoting Justsomepoint14:" I know I don't want to be a single mom but I'm also prolife and I know I'd not be able to do adoption I'm too emotional"

It's really your personal choice, nobody can tell you what's best for you. <3

Quoting Justsomepoint14:" I know I don't want to be a single mom but I'm also prolife and I know I'd not be able to do adoption I'm too emotional"

Every choice is a hard one. And emotions are tricky when it comes to adoption, absolutely. But emotions when you are a single parent raising a child alone are just as tough.

Do you have an adult that you would feel comfortable talking to and getting some advice from?

Not really only one knows is my bf

Quoting Justsomepoint14:" Not really only one knows is my bf"

Maybe you should tell your parents

Quoting Justsomepoint14:" Not really only one knows is my bf"

Do you have a pregnancy center in your area? There should be counselors available that will help you talk through your options and figure out what's best for you.

Quoting The Doctor:" Decide for yourself, not because of someone else. Do you want to raise this baby, even if that means ... [snip!] ... have abortion and adoption to consider. Neither is an easy option... but you have to weigh your own feelings about this one."

I agree with this!

OP I have some insight for you. You dont want to be a single parent, you are too emotional for adoption and you are prolife. It seems like it would be best for you to abort. You cant do adoption, I COMPLETELY understand. I will never do adoption. And being a single parent sucks balls.

I think you need to write down all of your feelings about everything. And I know that after an abortion the so/bf/dh [whatever] will not always stay around. I know you are in a bind and your mind is racing with thoughts. You can always PM me to bounce ideas off of me... I am always here to listen. I know how you feel.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" She said she's just about 22 weeks pregnant so I don't think abortion is an oprion anymore....which is why I'm so confused about what she's asking."

No she is 6 weeks and 22 yrs old.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" She said she's just about 22 weeks pregnant so I don't think abortion is an oprion anymore....which is why I'm so confused about what she's asking."

No she is 6 weeks and 22 yrs old.

I would say that if you aren't sure how you feel postpone your appointment for a few days or so and sit down and think and maybe do a pros and cons list or way out your feelings on it to see which way you go towards more. Just try to make sure this is what YOU want.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Arianna's Mama =]:</b>" No she is 6 weeks and 22 yrs old."</blockquote>


Omg get over it. She's 21 btw

<blockquote><b>Quoting Justsomepoint14:</b>" I am 21 and 6 weeks pregnant and my family's pretty religious. And I'm unmarried and my bf doesn't want ... [snip!] ... angry at my bf hedoesnt seem to be helpful and ive made an appointment for one tomorrow but im just upset all the same. Advice?"</blockquote>




I got pregnant at 19 with my first son, and my bf (now husband) at the time his parents were very religious and we were soooo scared to tell them, we also had to tell the pastor of the church and have it announced that we sinned against the 7th commandment. It was really scary and embarrassing but we got over it. Either way I think that most people regret and abortion more than they regret having a baby and going through the struggles. What would God want? I'm positive Hd would want you to keep it. Not everything in life is easy and going through these struggles makes our faith stronger. Just pray that god helps you and your family through this and to understand and accept it. You're in my thoughts! Blessings to you