I just need to get this out.

My ex and I (he's the father of my baby) had a few problems but we worked through them, everything was great, etc.
The other day he broke it off with me and couldn't even give me a reason as to why. THEN he goes posting all over social media sites "I just need somebody to love me please" even though I was never anything but loving towards him.
I just feel like he doesn't have a right to complain and I am SO FRUSTRATED.
Part of me thinks this is his way of hooking another girl he's trying to see because he keeps saying to me "well I still wanna be close, I still wanna be friends, I still wanna hang out, etc."
Am I being childish?
I'm just so hurt.

No. That would really hurt me too.

Dont do any of that smurf. He is trying to string you along. You arent being childish.

Sounds like he is looking for someone else, and trying to keep you around incase he cant find them. Sorry if that is harsh. Men can be such douchebags. I would say you should move on and find someone who will treat you better.

Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Sounds like he is looking for someone else, and trying to keep you around incase he cant find them. Sorry ... [snip!] ... Sorry if that is harsh. Men can be such douchebags. I would say you should move on and find someone who will treat you better."

No, it's not harsh that's what I was thinking too. I guess I just wanted to see how other people viewed the situation or something. He like, stalks me on various social media sites and if he sees a guy comment on ANY of my stuff he texts me asking who the guy was, or if I don't respond to his stuff for a few hours he'll freak out and start asking me where I've been.

Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Sounds like he is looking for someone else, and trying to keep you around incase he cant find them. Sorry ... [snip!] ... Sorry if that is harsh. Men can be such douchebags. I would say you should move on and find someone who will treat you better."

No, it's not harsh that's what I was thinking too. I guess I just wanted to see how other people viewed the situation or something. He like, stalks me on various social media sites and if he sees a guy comment on ANY of my stuff he texts me asking who the guy was, or if I don't respond to his stuff for a few hours he'll freak out and start asking me where I've been. I guess this is the only site I feel safe venting on.

*oops double post

Quoting veggiehugger:" No, it's not harsh that's what I was thinking too. I guess I just wanted to see how other people viewed ... [snip!] ... he'll freak out and start asking me where I've been. I guess this is the only site I feel safe venting on. *oops double post"

Thats sounds a little controling, and stalkerish lol. You should definately move on.

Quoting Soon 2B Mom of 2:" Thats sounds a little controling, and stalkerish lol. You should definately move on."

This!

Sounds like my sons father. He strung me around and then met his wife and then called me crazy because I thought it was a break... IMO I would leave him alone. Screw him.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" This! Sounds like my sons father. He strung me around and then met his wife and then called me crazy because I thought it was a break... IMO I would leave him alone. Screw him. "

I'm definitely trying. It's hard though because he still insists on coming to ALL of my appointments (even though they're just check-ups and I've had the most normal pregnancy). I don't mind too much now since the weather is bad and it means I don't have to drive, it just makes it harder to move on. And he's upset because I've never planned on giving our son his last name because he's too unreliable.
Sometimes I feel like he tries to stress me out on purpose.

Quoting veggiehugger:" I'm definitely trying. It's hard though because he still insists on coming to ALL of my appointments ... [snip!] ... on giving our son his last name because he's too unreliable. Sometimes I feel like he tries to stress me out on purpose. "

Id have someone else take ya. He doesnt need to go to all of your appts. He doesnt even need to be around right now.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Id have someone else take ya. He doesnt need to go to all of your appts. He doesnt even need to be around right now. "

True. I don't even plan on having him in the birthing room with me - some people are saying that's wrong because it's his son too but I don't see how it would be beneficial if he just stresses me out.

Quoting veggiehugger:" True. I don't even plan on having him in the birthing room with me - some people are saying that's wrong ... [snip!] ... people are saying that's wrong because it's his son too but I don't see how it would be beneficial if he just stresses me out. "

I dont see it a big deal. If it stresses you out then dont have him in there. I didnt have my youngest sons bio dad in the room with me when my youngest was born. My youngest bio dad wasnt even in the hospital when he was born...