re: Just made me sad..*vent*

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cheeks mom:</b>" OP I Would get on BC, I wouldn't want to have a baby with someone who didn't want to have one with me"</blockquote>




I dont want like hormone BC...eventually I might consider the mini pill.

He would get excited for another one eventually if I did accidently get pregnant

Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" How does he expect you to not have ... [snip!] ... done the pull and pray It makes me think he isnt super serious about NEVER wanting more kids...he would be more careful"

or he would expect you to have an abortion

Quoting Onalee's Mummy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Two wrongs don't make a right. ... [snip!] ... so he wouldn't leave her or something. Two wrongs don't make a right but why should his wrong take precedence over hers?"

I never said it did, however lying and trickery is never the route to take. However being the better person, and waiting and trying to have a mature discussion when the time is right, if she chooses to stay, would be a more appropriate method.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destiel:</b>" or he would expect you to have an abortion"</blockquote>




He wouldn't...he knows I would never have one personally...and he wouldnt want me too either..

All in all he doesbt want to PLAN for any more kids....still pisses me off

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I never said it did, however lying and trickery is never the route to take. However being the better ... [snip!] ... and trying to have a mature discussion when the time is right, if she chooses to stay, would be a more appropriate method."</blockquote>



I think thats what I'm going to do...put it off

After I tear into his ass for LIEING to me...but right now I'm just hurt and dont know how to yell at him  

Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I never said it did, however ... [snip!] ... do...put it off After I tear into his ass for LIEING to me...but right now I'm just hurt and dont know how to yell at him  "

I would leave .... honestly .... I couldn't take it. I would wonder what else he's agree to just to shut me up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I never said it did, however ... [snip!] ... do...put it off After I tear into his ass for LIEING to me...but right now I'm just hurt and dont know how to yell at him  "</blockquote>




I would be hurt too. Totally understandable. While I do disagree with tricking him, I can 100 percent see why it would be upsetting. How old is your LO? Def give him time to come around. And definitely have a talk with him about everything once things cool off.

<blockquote><b>Qu...how aoting Destiel:</b>" I would leave .... honestly .... I couldn't take it. I would wonder what else he's agree to just to shut me up."</blockquote>




It's like I dont know how to deal with my feelings...just shocked he would do that?

Manipulative and immature

Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Qu...how aoting Destiel:</b>" I would leave .... honestly .... I couldn't ... [snip!] ... It's like I dont know how to deal with my feelings...just shocked he would do that? Manipulative and immature"

I think you need to talk to him again.
I can't get over this lol. I would be beyond pissed. Like screaming, crying and leaving pissed.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Black Dynamite:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His ... [snip!] ... is your LO? Def give him time to come around. And definitely have a talk with him about everything once things cool off."</blockquote>




My son is 14 months so we have about 2 years to change his mind...tffdssxx

<blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" I think you need to talk to him again. I can't get over this lol. I would be beyond pissed. Like screaming, crying and leaving pissed."</blockquote>



I really thought he was joking at first....I'm more of the shut down type when something really upsets me

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destiel:</b>" I would leave .... honestly .... I couldn't take it. I would wonder what else he's agree to just to shut me up."</blockquote>




!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" I never said it did, however ... [snip!] ... do...put it off After I tear into his ass for LIEING to me...but right now I'm just hurt and dont know how to yell at him  "</blockquote>



I hope you guys can work it out.

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His ... [snip!] ... to me...but right now I'm just hurt and dont know how to yell at him  "</blockquote> I hope you guys can work it out."</blockquote>



Thanks Mama....me too.

It just doesnt make sense...we specifically kept all his clothes and stored it FORTHENEXTBABY....blows my mind...ugh I gotta stop dwelling on it for now

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... specifically kept all his clothes and stored it FORTHENEXTBABY....blows my mind...ugh I gotta stop dwelling on it for now"</blockquote>




If you had had a girl first would he have been different?