<blockquote><b>Quoting KDJ's mommy:</b>" What about my 40lb toddler??? I pick her up all the time. Kind of hard to avoid ha."</blockquote>
You should be fine since you're used to it. Unless your dr said it wasn't safe like if u had complications. I put in a retaining wall when I was about 3-4 mos preg and was fine. The store said the bricks were 40 lbs each.