re: What's in your Birth Plan?

Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:" I plan on using a donor. Home birth, water birth, breastfeeding, organic baby food, co sleeping, non spanking and slinging."

That is not a birth plan.....lol A birth plan is what you want to go on during the labor/birth process hence why its called a BIRTH plan

OP I just wanna push the baby out...lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lillybutt's momma:</b>" That is not a birth plan.....lol A birth plan is what you want to go on during the labor/birth process hence why its called a BIRTH plan OP I just wanna push the baby out...lol"</blockquote>




She doesn't know that. She has the mind / thinking process of a 12 year old. Not being mean, but it's true.

Quoting Mr's&Family*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Lillybutt's momma:</b>" That is not a birth plan.....lol A ... [snip!] ... She doesn't know that. She has the mind / thinking process of a 12 year old. Not being mean, but it's true."

I know what a birth plan is.

I want a natural water birth at home.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:</b>" I know what a birth plan is. I want a natural water birth at home.  "</blockquote>

If you don't mind me asking, why are you talking about birth plans if you aren't, nor have ever been pregnant? Also, I'm curious as to why you are seeking SSI if you have a tech school diploma? Just curious. Maybe it's just me, but it's not everyday that people with no kids and not expecting go through the pregnancy issues board. Just trying to better understand

Quoting *Mega Mom*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:</b>" I know what a birth plan is. ... [snip!] ... not everyday that people with no kids and not expecting go through the pregnancy issues board. Just trying to better understand"

Yes, I do mind you asking. Sorry.

Quoting *Mega Mom*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:</b>" I know what a birth plan is. ... [snip!] ... not everyday that people with no kids and not expecting go through the pregnancy issues board. Just trying to better understand"

aparently she wants to use SSI to pay a doctor tp inseminate her.. but she has mental issues to one will do it.
she is trying to get pregnnat and have a baby but really shouldnt.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angela [Ms. Kathy Fan]:</b>" Yes, I do mind you asking. Sorry."</blockquote>

Ok, well, as I'm seeking advice from other mothers, I'd would appreciate it if I got advice from mothers.

I just don't particularly care for people being rude (with the rolling of your eyes faces) and being short with other posters when I am seeking advice and input from people. If you can't answer my questions about your background and why I should take you seriously, it may be best if you just let qualified people answer.

Thanks  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" aparently she wants to use SSI to pay a doctor tp inseminate her.. but she has mental issues to one will do it. she is trying to get pregnnat and have a baby but really shouldnt."</blockquote>

That's what I was gathering. I tried to handle it nicely. Not sure how it will be taken though

<blockquote><b>Quoting *Mega Mom*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ☮ Phuket:</b>" aparently she wants to use SSI to pay ... [snip!] ... shouldnt."</blockquote> That's what I was gathering. I tried to handle it nicely. Not sure how it will be taken though"</blockquote>




She will most likely reply with how you're being a smurf or a bitch to her. She has a mind of a 12 year old. On SSI, waiting for her grandfather to pass away to get his inheritance money to then get a sperm donor. Her mother is in control of everything she does, because of her mental state. She keeps coming back to this site, obsessed with baby names and starting drama....even after she has been banned a million times. Angela is just rude and doesn't like it when people really tells her how it is and when people TRY to be nice to her by gently letting her know no doctor will ever let her have a baby.

Just ignore her OP  
So far your birth plan is off to a great start  

With all three of my kids my birth plan has been the same and will remain the same with this baby. I go to a free standing birth center 10 min away from the closest hospital so drugs are not even an option ( really helps to go natural when you know it's the only choice ) . My midwife already does delayed cord clamping and no episiotomies unless extremely necessary . She doesn't suction the baby right away either if not needed. While I'm in labor it only my midwife and my husband there NO ONE else is allowed . I eat while I'm in labor and thank god my midwife knows this because during two of my births I forgot to bring light snacks and she always has something on hand. No visitors for at least six hours after birth and no more then three people at a time. I don't allow my kids to get any shots or eye drops either. Ohh and my hubby catches the baby ( he's caught all three so far).