Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" It is so embarassing, but I guess I shouldn't ... [snip!] ... OR they love someone who has a bad situation. I don't mean to diminish the situation just help put it into perspective."

No I agree. Every family has a black sheep! lol
I just wish she would open her eyes and relaize that he is an addict and she needs to step up and be a good mother and take care of her kids. She doesn't even try, IMO. It is 100% dysfunctional.

Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" Thank you. I think my mom needs the sympathy ... [snip!] ... beast as a result. :-("</blockquote> hard call for your mom. In essence, her leaving would be like "tough love.""

My mom came to stay with us from June-Aug and my sister was NOT a happy camper. My sister tried to come with my mom & leave her 2 kids with a drug addict. I'm pretty sure he shoots the oxy up. Who the hell would leave their kids with someone like that?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" My mom came to stay with us from June-Aug and my sister was NOT a happy camper. My sister tried to come ... [snip!] ... 2 kids with a drug addict. I'm pretty sure he shoots the oxy up. Who the hell would leave their kids with someone like that?"</blockquote>




Poor kids. They deserve much more.
Life isn't fair  

Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Destinite:</b>" My mom came to stay with us from June-Aug and ... [snip!] ... would leave their kids with someone like that?"</blockquote> Poor kids. They deserve much more. Life isn't fair  "

It really isn't fair. They deserve a normal, functional and positive life. I do believe we are mostly in charge of our own happiness. If my sister gave it 100% she could change her life completely. Her first step should be getting a freaking JOB and getting away from the dead weight boyfriend.
She blew her chance with my money, though. I don't think i'll ever give her a dime after this last attempt.

Not sure if this has been mentioned yet, but her husband has another girl pregnant too that she just found out about yesterday. As far as that goes, I feel bad for her, that much suck.

Anyway, I think we should always wish people the best. If they're on drugs, I would not wish a miscarriage on them, I would just pray they get off the drugs and step up. Wishing a miscarriage is the wrong thing to focus on IMO. Focus on the problem.

Well, if anyone cares, she miscarried:

"Just eight weeks into her pregnancy Jenelle Evans tragically had a miscarriage, RadarOnline.com has exclusively learned.
The troubled Teen Mom star Tweeted “Sm**rfrfrfrfrfrfrfrfrf,” early Friday morning and then wrote: “Feel light headed,” revealing the sad news about her situation.

“Jenelle lost the baby this morning,” a friend of hers exclusively told RadarOnline.com.

“She’s sad and upset, but she’ll make it through,” they said about the 21-year-old reality star.

Jenelle and her husband Courtland Rogers happily told RadarOnline.com that they were expecting the baby together, but following his wild night out boozing, they split up earlier this week.

As RadarOnline.com previously reported, Jenelle filed charges against Courtland for assault.

The MTV star’s friend said she hasn’t spoken to her husband at all today and so he hasn’t been told about her miscarriage yet."




Poor thing.

Idk if this is true at all or not, but I also heard she was faking the whole pregnancy to begin with. And I don't even remember where I saw that. But if she was lying, it's quite the coincidence she miscarries a day after she and her husband have a nasty split. Or a tragic result of the stress she was going through because of the split up.

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Well, if anyone cares, she miscarried: "Just eight weeks into her pregnancy Jenelle Evans tragically ... [snip!] ... said she hasn’t spoken to her husband at all today and so he hasn’t been told about her miscarriage yet." Poor thing. "</blockquote>




I'm sorry that the baby died but pleased that she has more time to mature and HOPEFULLY get her act together.

Quoting TheNuge:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Well, if anyone cares, she miscarried: "Just eight ... [snip!] ... I'm sorry that the baby died but pleased that she has more time to mature and HOPEFULLY get her act together."

Hope she does turn around. She is a mess.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lady GooGoo™:</b>" Not sure if this has been mentioned yet, but her husband has another girl pregnant too that she just ... [snip!] ... just pray they get off the drugs and step up. Wishing a miscarriage is the wrong thing to focus on IMO. Focus on the problem."</blockquote>




I totally agree with you!

You really don't know anything about it until you've been on our shoes. I have lost two babies, and luckily, I had the chance of meeting them and holding them. I think it only increased my pain, since I can remember them so clearly. It is NEVER right to wish a miscarriage on someone WHEN they are pregnant. The pain and grief that come with it... hell, no one deserves it.

I have but secretly.

Oh no, I have said it to someone on here once but I was a major twat before I took my hiatus. Not so much anymore, I try to be nice or at least civil.

I see nothing wrong with thinking "I hope she loses the baby." Just don't say it.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" I don't think it is wrong if the mother ... [snip!] ... chances from that happening? Maybe it does but thats why their mothers need to have more control before that even happends."</blockquote>


What the smurf are you talking about? You sound like an idiot.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lady GooGoo™:</b>" Idk if this is true at all or not, but I also heard she was faking the whole pregnancy to begin with. ... [snip!] ... after she and her husband have a nasty split. Or a tragic result of the stress she was going through because of the split up."</blockquote>

That's what I'm thinking. I wouldn't be surprised.

Quoting Mrs. Fitzwilliam Darcy:" I see nothing wrong with thinking "I hope she loses the baby." Just don't say it.  "

Do you have any idea of what it feels like to loose your own child?....