Struggling -_-

I'm finding it very hard to come to terms that my children's father & I are separated for what seems to be 'for good'.

After 8 long years of a love roller coaster I don't know where to start to mend my heart.
We both still love each other so much but we just fought too much. It was a mutual agreement to separate for the boys because they don't deserve to deal with our issues.

I just don't know anymore...


*was suppose to be PT only but smurf it. ..

It must be hard when you love someone and this is happening.

I'm sorry.   It just takes time.

Quoting loser mom:" I'm sorry.   It just takes time. "

Thank you.
I just wish I knew if we are able to work this out in the future or if I need to move on completely...
I think it makes it harder because I just don't know if we will be able to mend our relationship ever again...

Have you guess tried counseling?

Quoting Ah TAM:" Have you guess tried counseling?"

No but I wish we had the time & money for it.
I really think it would do some good for us.

<blockquote><b>Quoting [α❤к]:</b>" No but I wish we had the time & money for it. I really think it would do some good for us."</blockquote>




I agree it sounds like it would help since u both still love each other.

U should ask around. Not just regular counseling places either. DH and i needed to do a "couples retreat"before we could get married. They did a huge discounted rate for us. They also had a married couples retreat too.

<blockquote><b>Quoting [α❤к]:</b>" No but I wish we had the time & money for it. I really think it would do some good for us."</blockquote>




I agree it sounds like it would help since u both still love each other.

U should ask around. Not just regular counseling places either. DH and i needed to do a "couples retreat"before we could get married. They did a huge discounted rate for us. They also had a married couples retreat too.