Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" Some of you know my story. Some don't. Basically my husband cheated on me a couple months ago. He told ... [snip!] ... say at least he told me about it right. So I'm hoping this works. Wish us luck. And thanks for all the support and help ladies."I know most folks would just say dump the smurf. I've been told the same thing about my wife. It's.....just......not......that...easy. I think you know exactly what I mean. Even after they destroy your heart, it is hard to sever ties to them. Especially when there are kids involved. It is not that easy. Just take it a day at a time. That is what I have been doing for the last 8 months. One day at a time. It hasn't gotten better yet, and I don't expect that it will. BUT it doesn't cause to feel physically ill as much anymore. I just feel drained all the time. This isn't something that you can just get over quickly. It takes time. I can tell you that I don't know if I'll ever get over it. At this point, I doubt that I will.