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Hope everything works out for you in the end!

It can work, it just takes time. I've been through something similar and we're still together.Good luck.

I don't think it's stupid. I think marriage counseling is best, I don't think people should be so easy to give up on marriages, and it's sad how many do.

I hope everything works out for you guys, and honestly, I'm glad that she had an abortion, it makes things a lot less complicated for you and your husband.

It's not stupid at all. Good luck with everything!

I feel pathetic, we need marriage counseling...

I can't stand my husband but I know I love him... we need help, I can't go through another breakup... he finally agreed to get counseling, and now I don't care  

I hope u guys can work it out, idk about us  

Thank you everyone. I'm really excited and happy.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" I feel pathetic, we need marriage counseling... I can't stand my husband but I know I love him... we ... [snip!] ... another breakup... he finally agreed to get counseling, and now I don't care   I hope u guys can work it out, idk about us  "</blockquote>



That's how I was. I just didn't care anymore. I was tired of being hurt. But I remembered all the good over those few bad things. And it pulled me through. It helped that he tried a lot. And got a new number. And he constantly asks me if I want to go through his phone. I don't though because I'm to old for that (although I'm young haha). And I truly believe a marriage or relationship can't work if there's no trust. So I'm trying.  

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" Some of you know my story. Some don't. Basically my husband cheated on me a couple months ago. He told ... [snip!] ... say at least he told me about it right. So I'm hoping this works. Wish us luck. And thanks for all the support and help ladies."

I know most folks would just say dump the smurf. I've been told the same thing about my wife. It's.....just......not......that...easy. I think you know exactly what I mean. Even after they destroy your heart, it is hard to sever ties to them. Especially when there are kids involved. It is not that easy. Just take it a day at a time. That is what I have been doing for the last 8 months. One day at a time. It hasn't gotten better yet, and I don't expect that it will. BUT it doesn't cause to feel physically ill as much anymore. I just feel drained all the time. This isn't something that you can just get over quickly. It takes time. I can tell you that I don't know if I'll ever get over it. At this point, I doubt that I will.

I know exactly what you're going thru (minus the pregnancy). Dh cheated on me with a co-worker. We went to marriage counselling and really worked things out. Unfortunately he still works with the woman.

It takes a lot of work and time. Things between us now is so much better but it still hurts and I didn't just "forget" what happened. It's really hard especially when you have people telling you to leave and forget him. No one irl knows about the situation. They know we ha a hard time and went to counselling. I think it made it a bit easier to deal with it from that aspect.

Feel free to pm me if you need to talk.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:</b>" It can work, it just takes time. I've been through something similar and we're still together.Good luck."</blockquote>


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Time, motivativation & leaning on each other is what it takes. I went through a similar situation in 2011, we're now happier than ever and our marriage is great.

I wish you luck! I hope it works out for you!

I think our marriage is better than ever also. He appreciates me more. He use to take me for granted. But when I left him he realized how much he truly loves me. And he's been such a better husband and daddy.

A selected few close friends and family know the situation. And all they ever told me is that they know he loves me. And he knows he messed up. But only I could make the decision. And they would support me either way.