re: another miscarriage :(

Quoting Jillbill4:" it keeps feeling like my waters breaking but its all blood. would you go to the hospital or just wait it out at home?"

honestly they won't be able to do much at the hospital.
if you were 4.5 weeks I would just wait it out at home, and if you start getting light headed or unbearable pain I would go in.


I had 2 healthy pregnancies and babies.
after that I lost 2 babies one at 13 weeks and the other around 6 weeks.
Don't think it's you. You obviously CAN have babies, you have 2. You could have what I have, which is MTHFR. It's a genetic mutation that can show up at anytime. It causes blood clots in the placenta/umbilical cord.
After this loss I would talk to your doctor about testing to see if you have an issue like that.

I can have normal healthy pregnancies now, but I'm high risk and I have to do blood thinner shots once a day.

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Quoting InkDMomma:" honestly they won't be able to do much at the hospital. if you were 4.5 weeks I would just wait it out ... [snip!] ... healthy pregnancies now, but I'm high risk and I have to do blood thinner shots once a day. I'm very sorry for your loss."

I know someone else with this "little" problem. She lost 2 first before they found out she needed progesterone and she can take aspirin to thin her blood. Now she's on her 3rd healthy pregnancy.

Quoting TheCoopersKnitWitch:" I know someone else with this "little" problem. She lost 2 first before they found out she needed progesterone and she can take aspirin to thin her blood. Now she's on her 3rd healthy pregnancy."

I did progesterone BEFORE I got pregnant, I just needed a thicker uterine lining. I did the baby aspirin for a while until I got approved for my shots and then my doctor likes for everyone to be on shots better.
It's fairly simple, I thought it was going to be a crazy hectic pregnancy.

Quoting InkDMomma:" I did progesterone BEFORE I got pregnant, I just needed a thicker uterine lining. I did the baby aspirin ... [snip!] ... my doctor likes for everyone to be on shots better. It's fairly simple, I thought it was going to be a crazy hectic pregnancy."

When she told me about the problem she had, I thought too that a pregnancy with those complications would be so much "work" "hectic" as you put it. but she said it was pretty simple. I was surprised.

I'm sooooo sorry Mamma. I've lost 2 babies also. It's hard I know. & I often wonder "what is wrong with me?"
  stay strong! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon!

i had a funny shaped blood clot about the size of 3/4 of my palm, do you think it could be what would of been the baby?  

Quoting Jillbill4:" i had a funny shaped blood clot about the size of 3/4 of my palm, do you think it could be what would of been the baby?  "

It could have been, darlin'. At that early stage of pregnancy, most likely all you would see is clots.