No Sexy Time

It's driving me crazy that lately I want sex but just can't bring myself to actually have sex. I feel horrible for my husband having to go without, and any time I offer he says "baby, you're hurting."

And it's true. I feel like someone kicked me in the vag while wearing a pair oof steel toed boots. I've started getting those lovely, intense BH contractions that aren't supposed to hurt but do. My boobs are achy and pelvis feels shattered. But my god I'm smurfing horny! I want to have sex, I want to feel sexy, I want to be intimate with him a few more times before baby comes and we officially go from couple to family status.

How do I go about achieving this?
Hell, I can't even get out of bed without groaning.
I need a lesson on being convincing that I feel good enough to have sex, because despite the aches and pains that come with the last weeks I WANT to smurf his brains out  

Maybe some toys or oral stimulation you both can do together if penetration is too painful?

Did you try lying down in spooning position? That was the only one that didn't kill me when I had a big belly.

I banned sex after 30 weeks. I was too scared of PTL. DH was a good sport about it. Then I tore during delivery and couldn't even think about sex without shuddering until 12 weeks PP. So get it in while you can!

Quoting MILF !!:" Maybe some toys or oral stimulation you both can do together if penetration is too painful?"

I was just about to say the same thing.... it's pleasurable and intimate

Quoting Rabbit™:" It's driving me crazy that lately I want sex but just can't bring myself to actually have sex. I feel ... [snip!] ... good enough to have sex, because despite the aches and pains that come with the last weeks I WANT to smurf his brains out  "

take a warm bath (not hot) and relax. ask him for a little massagey action and try not to complain about how u hurting lol.... and then.... swoop in for the kill. on top was the most comfortable for me, as well as on my side or doggy.... just rotate often so u dont feel sore

Have oral sex! And then if you are feeling froggy and want to try and have sex, do it doggy style so he can't see your face?

I had to do that at the end of my pregnancy with DS2. It hurt so bad, but I wanted it even more. But if he saw my face and that I was hurting he would stop no matter how much I didn't want him to.

Quoting Supafly★:" Did you try lying down in spooning position? That was the only one that didn't kill me when I had a big ... [snip!] ... I tore during delivery and couldn't even think about sex without shuddering until 12 weeks PP. So get it in while you can! "

I'm having a c'section and I keep telling him we gotta get it in now because it's gonna be at least 6 weeks after before I even entertain the idea of sex.  

I never thought of spooning. Definitely have to give that one a try.

I hear ya! The best way I've found is just to jump him. Push all the thoughts away and go for it. It's not sex I dread so much as its getting the oomph to start it. Once it's started I enjoy it immensely so I just shake the thoughts away n just go for it. Doggy is my fav and most comfortable position when preggo.

Quoting Rabbit™:" I'm having a c'section and I keep telling him we gotta get it in now because it's gonna be at least ... [snip!] ... after before I even entertain the idea of sex.   I never thought of spooning. Definitely have to give that one a try."

Yup and try doggie style except where you're lying on the bed with a pillow under your boobs and under your hips. That position feels amaaaazing! Much better than spooning but it's rougher so IDK if it will hurt you or not.

Do da bootie sex then.  

Well girl try to relax and sex is could be a good way because you have a lot of stress. Try to wear something sexy, bathing suits, shorts, mini skirts,so that you feel sexy. You can try to be in the top since you will be the one who handles the speed so if you feel some pain, you just go slowly and not too deep and your bf will not know. For me spooning and doggy also worked. Some touching, kisses, clit stimulation, oral sex can help you to get your bf and yourself more into it. You can watch pregnant porn to find more positions. Don't stop having sex because of the pain. It happened to me when I had not had sex for over months. Usually the first two or three times it was painful and later it turned out great. I hope you can have sex every day from now on, it is awful to be without it and you will feel worse if you don't have it. Good luck and keeps us posted with updates

Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" Do da bootie sex then.  "

SmUrf that, lol!
It hurts to evacuate, I can't imagine intentionally putting anything in there right now  

And for those who care...
I got me some  

I am just curious how did all go?