re: cant stop hatin this h* wtf

Quoting Big Booty Heaux™:" Exactly....bitter ass smurf."

 

no point in beating a dead horse. be a grown up, OP.

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" so torture the girl who already supposedly lost her husband, and was shamed out of her job? just go out of your way to find her and make her more miserable? sounds totally reasonable.  "</blockquote>

Scroll back through the thread sweetie....all I was wondering is if anyone ever felt like that in a situation before...not saying I'm gonna go run this instant & do anything. Don't let your eyes roll back too far. They'll stick lmao ;)

<blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" she said in the OP they got divorced. so, really, who the smurf cares anymore? it's over."</blockquote>


She said they worked things out and their relationship is stronger.


OP I'd be pissed too. You need closure, and she is a homewrecker. I can't believe the comments youre getting. If a girl on here admitted to sleeping with a married man she would be attacked and called all kinds of names. I completely get where you're coming from and you either need an apology from her or to speak your mind to her. It's not like you went after her first and didn't blame DH at all  

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" so torture the girl who already supposedly lost her husband, and was shamed out of her job? just go out of your way to find her and make her more miserable? sounds totally reasonable.  "

I never said it was right or reasonable.
You said "who the smurf cares?" and I said that OP obviously does if she's still upset about it.

I agree she should get the smurf over it. But she also stated in the beginning of her post "Well long story short the hubby & I worked crap out" which I took as they rekindled their relationship...

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" Ehhh sometimes it is just better to move on and not deal with the smurf. My most recent ex cheated on ... [snip!] ... my miscarriage. Do I give a smurf nope....Do I find it hilarious he is gonna get this chick knocked up and leave her...yeaaap. "

Yeah, I get that. Everyone deals with being cheated on differently though. It took me two years to get over absolutely everything and I feel so much better. I was cheated on with two girls; one knew about me (his ex) and one did not. As much as I dislike the one who didn't know, I can't fault her at all. His ex, I faulted because she not only knew about me and continued it/egged it on, she blamed me for it all. So yeah, I blamed her for smurf too as well as DH.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" she said in the OP they got divorced. so, really, ... [snip!] ... need an apology from her or to speak your mind to her. It's not like you went after her first and didn't blame DH at all  "

I slept with a married man that was in the process of getting a divorce. Him and his psycho wife are back together. (Not just saying that because they are back together but because she is completely bat smurf crazy)

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" <blockquote><b>Quoting JiLLiAN.:</b>" she said in the OP they got divorced. so, really, ... [snip!] ... need an apology from her or to speak your mind to her. It's not like you went after her first and didn't blame DH at all  "

Yupp her husband killed himself and people are talking smurf about her behind her back....she sure is getting away with it all!

Quoting Miss Molly!:" I never said it was right or reasonable. You said "who the smurf cares?" and I said that OP obviously ... [snip!] ... of her post "Well long story short the hubby & I worked crap out" which I took as they rekindled their relationship..."

Yes but still hating and being a little obsessed about this girl is not going to help the relationship. OP you need to just focus on your relationship, maybe some couples and separate therapy would be a good ideal.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" See, you're being highly juvenile over it all now. She doesn't know she has an "ass beating" coming ... [snip!] ... have one coming. You're not going to do anything and if you do, with you being divorced and all, you are extremely childish. "</blockquote>


No we're together now but she runs her mouth & smurf. I can't typ edd as fast as everyone's comments are coming in lol. Im tired,work 3rd shift & was just venting a lil I guess. I don't dwell on it 24/7 she sh. I thought I said that in my first post. Some guys were talking about her & it just ran across my mind

Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" Yeah, I get that. Everyone deals with being cheated on differently though. It took me two years to get ... [snip!] ... only knew about me and continued it/egged it on, she blamed me for it all. So yeah, I blamed her for smurf too as well as DH. "

yea ehhh I was cheated on with my supposed best friend. She's a hoe anyways and somebody may or may not have called CPs for her beating her kid upside her head and c alling her a little bitch to her face among other things.

Quoting Shasta McNasty a.k.a. Tit:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" See, you're being highly juvenile ... [snip!] ... dwell on it 24/7 she sh. I thought I said that in my first post. Some guys were talking about her & it just ran across my mind"

If you dwell on it at all, 24/7 or not, you need to find someway to get some therapy to help you get over it all if you're going to stay with your husband. If not, it's going to eat at you.

I don't know if I'd ever be able to rekindle after a break in trust like that. It would take a LOT of hard work and building that trust back.

Obsession over this woman is only going to make the feelings of resentment linger around longer, and it will eventually tear your relationship apart again until you let go of it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Clk:</b>" Yes but still hating and being a little obsessed about this girl is not going to help the relationship. ... [snip!] ... relationship. OP you need to just focus on your relationship, maybe some couples and separate therapy would be a good ideal. "</blockquote>

Not obsessed. AGAIN......the ONLY time it crosses my mind is if someone brings it up.....

Quoting Shasta McNasty a.k.a. Tit:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:</b>" See, you're being highly juvenile ... [snip!] ... dwell on it 24/7 she sh. I thought I said that in my first post. Some guys were talking about her & it just ran across my mind"

Find you a place (or just invest in one) taht has a punching bag.   Seriously it wll make you feel soooo much better!

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" yea ehhh I was cheated on with my supposed best friend. She's a hoe anyways and somebody may or may not ... [snip!] ... not have called CPs for her beating her kid upside her head and c alling her a little bitch to her face among other things. "

 
Oh smurf.
I mean, if the woman doesn't know then I can completely understand not faulting her but if she knows, she is just as wrong. Yes, it's still the dudes fault for straying and whatnot but if she knows he's in a relationship, or supposed to be I should say, that just makes her a skeeze.