Quoting KNZ.:" But..wouldn't it also be kind of weird if you asked what he was doing and he said, "looking at porn and ... [snip!] ... at porn and a picture of my ex?" I mean, i'd be annoyed- but i wouldn't really expect the truth the first time either, ha. "

I may have worded it wrong, but I didn't ask him what he was doing in the first place. Nor do I ever get on his phone. I'm annoyed because I knew he was hiding it when I walked in and he just spurt out that he was looking at something else and tried to erase it. KWIM?

Quoting Martian Child.:" Oh no, no, no. I'm not upset about that. I'm really not, I've looked at pictures of my ex on Facebook, ... [snip!] ... of my ex on Facebook, too. Being a nosy ass, lol. I put in bold that I was upset about the lying and hiding it, mainly. "

Don't you think he was upset that you took his phone and checked the history and stuff?

I don't care if SO looks up porn, his ex would bother me, but maybe he was just looking up facebook or whatever then decided he was bored. My SO will look up porn if he gets bored

Quoting Martian Child.:" I may have worded it wrong, but I didn't ask him what he was doing in the first place. Nor do I ever ... [snip!] ... knew he was hiding it when I walked in and he just spurt out that he was looking at something else and tried to erase it. KWIM?"

Ohhh haha okay, ya, so definitely felt guilty.
hm. the ex part would weird me out far more than the porn part.

Quoting PurpleBama582:" Don't you think he was upset that you took his phone and checked the history and stuff? "

Yes ma'am. I agree that maybe it wasn't the best action, but I did it based on the history we have with it and how fishy he was acting. And that's usually what he does, tries to turn it on me for "being nosy" and that takes the heat off of him. Quite typical.

I caught my DH on a porn site. I went to google something on his phone and it popped up. I asked him about it right away and he was embarrassed and didn't want to talk about it. He just stated that it had been awhile. I could understand where he was com

Quoting Moose's Mama:" I don't care if SO looks up porn, his ex would bother me, but maybe he was just looking up facebook or whatever then decided he was bored. My SO will look up porn if he gets bored"

Yeah, I literally didn't connect the two at all until it was mentioned here, haha.

I caught my DH on a porn site. I went to google something on his phone and it popped up. I asked him about it right away and he was embarrassed and didn't want to talk about it. He just stated that it had been awhile. I could understand where he was coming from we couldn't have sex while I was preggers and then had to wait and all that good stuff. Could it be he is just frustrated?