Quoting ~ALI~:" I started working part time in August to get out of the house, it includes a couple 4 hour shifts at ... [snip!] ... I feel like I should give in to save the fights between us but at the same time I like my independence! What would you do?"
If you like working, then work. I wouldn't let a man tell me i couldn't work, that would make me feel like he's trying to overpower me and trying to make me have to rely on him... not happening... if its not affecting anything at home aside from yall fightin.. he can get over it.