re: Disturbing dream about my nephew who passed away.

Quoting The ℰffin' D!™:" It is a nice thing to hear. I really never thought of it that way! "

It is nice!

Like, maybe it's his way of telling you that he's ok <3 I'm sure his passing is something you've struggled greatly with......and your fears that he felt scared and alone tells me that you've felt unsettled about what HE experienced on that day and how HE felt. Maybe this was a sign from him telling you that he is happy and very much at peace. By showing himself without all of the disturbing factors, he was trying to say "this is me now, I'm ok and I want you to be ok too" <3

Quoting Ryleigh's Mama ♥:" You're welcome <3 My mom just passed away & I saw her before the ambulance came & took her ... [snip!] ... want me to remember. Not those last moments. It really helped. Because I know it's true. I'm so sorry for your loss <3"

I'm so sorry  

Quoting The ℰffin' D!™:" The thing that disturbed me the most wasn't the blood, his ice cold body, or the way he looked. It was ... [snip!] ... that he left us days before they pronounced him dead. But in my dream his eyes were smiling and looking to me for comfort.  "

*hugs*

Quoting wombie:" :-( I just can't even fathom what that must have been like for you and your family."

It was a very sad and unfortunate times in our life.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The ℰffin' D!™:</b>" The thing that disturbed me the most wasn't the blood, his ice cold body, or the way he looked. It was ... [snip!] ... that he left us days before they pronounced him dead. But in my dream his eyes were smiling and looking to me for comfort.  "</blockquote>


I definitely believe its him coming to you to help you find comfort that he's ok now sweetie. *hugs* he doesn't want you to remember him that way. So he's trying to show you he's not suffering now.

Quoting wombie:" It is nice! Like, maybe it's his way of telling you that he's ok <3 I'm sure his passing is something ... [snip!] ... himself without all of the disturbing factors, he was trying to say "this is me now, I'm ok and I want you to be ok too" <3"

That is such a happy way to look at it, and it certainly makes me feel better about the situation.

Quoting wombie:" I'm so sorry  "

It's okay. But thank you!

Quoting wombie:" *hugs*"

 

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The ℰffin' D!™:</b>" The thing that disturbed me the most ... [snip!] ... he's ok now sweetie. *hugs* he doesn't want you to remember him that way. So he's trying to show you he's not suffering now."

I really appreciate you saying that. It turns the dream into a positive thing, rather than a negative.

<blockquote><b>Quoting The ℰffin' D!™:</b>" WARNING!!! The following recounts what happened when my nephew died. ****************************************************** ... [snip!] ... as perfect as he originally way. Smurfing smurffy dreams that trick your mind when you wake up.   Why does that happen!?!?!"</blockquote>




(hugs)

I'm so sorry :,-(.

After my dad died, I'd often have dreams like that. He'd just come home and sit on the couch like normal. Or, he'd sit up in his coffin and act like nothing was unusual, or his skin would be a purple-grayish color but nothing else amiss.

Smurfed me up too. I don't know why it happens. Maybe it means that in our hearts, we refuse to give them up for gone. We just love them so much and miss them so much that we even try to resurrect them in our dreams.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ryleigh's Mama ♥:</b>" You're welcome <3 My mom just passed away & I saw her before the ambulance came & took her ... [snip!] ... want me to remember. Not those last moments. It really helped. Because I know it's true. I'm so sorry for your loss <3"</blockquote>




I'm so sorry:'-(.

Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The ℰffin' D!™:</b>" WARNING!!! The following recounts ... [snip!] ... to give them up for gone. We just love them so much and miss them so much that we even try to resurrect them in our dreams."

Oh, it's okay. No need to say sorry, but I really appreciate it.

I'm so sorry about your Dad. It's awful to lost a parent, and I cannot imagine how that felt.

That just means that in heaven he isnt suffering anymore. That is heartbreaking sorry to hear that.

Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" That just means that in heaven he isnt suffering anymore. That is heartbreaking sorry to hear that."

Thank you.  
That is a much comforting way to think of it.