is it just me

ok look recently my baby has becum very annoying clingy crying n just bad i get so frustrated with her n just let her cry in her crib i cheak if she is hungry n diaper but its niether i feel bad for yelling at her i just get so frustrated n i dont no what to do n my boyfriend is no help her tells me to grab her n he do not help me she is 10 months old n all over the place im i da only one it happens to or r there others  

its normal and you have to let her cry sometimes.... dont feel bad.

it happens with me and my son is almost 6 months old. I get so frustrated at times but i tell myself to calm down because it isnt his fault. I just try everything i can think of. Like walking around with him. GOing outside. Giving him toys. Seeing if he his hungry or needs a diaper change. Put him in his bouncer or swing. Rock him. or take him for a walk. Or even take him for a lil car ride.

It's her age and yelling is not going to do anything but make her more upset but I do understand your frustration! If you find yourself getting mad put her down walk away and sit for a minute to relax!

She is probably going through normal separation anxiety that all babies go through around that age. Once babies realize that you can dissapear, the thought occurs to them that you might not come back, and it frightens them. Play games llike peek-a-boo andhide and seek to let her know that even when you leave, you will always come back.Sometimes you just need to give them a reassuring hug. Don't yell at her... she doesn't know better. When you feel yourself getting mad, just lay her down, tell her you love her and walk away for a break.

You're letting her cio? at 10 months? She's just a baby for crying out loud! She cries b/c she has a need that is not met....there's more than just checking for hunger and dirty diapers....maybe she's bored, tired, cold, hot, just in a bad mood, something.

Maybe this is cliche and doesn't apply to you at all...but you're 17. I'm thinking this is the biggest reason you're more easily frustrated w/ her crying.

Quoting CatLuvr83:“ You're letting her cio? at 10 months? She's just a baby for crying out loud! She cries b/c she has a ... [snip!] ... apply to you at all...but you're 17. I'm thinking this is the biggest reason you're more easily frustrated w/ her crying.”

I am not saying that I entirely disagree with you (I don't)... but for the same reasons, she will ignore any practical advice given if she feels as if she is being attacked.

hmmmm yealling at a baby........ yealling is not going to make her stop crying.... its not going to hurt her to cry it out. if she has a full tummy clean dipper and you have tryed playing with her and she want nothing to do with you dont feel bad but yealling at her......hmmmm

Quoting SRQShannon:“ I am not saying that I entirely disagree with you (I don't)... but for the same reasons, she will ignore any practical advice given if she feels as if she is being attacked.”

Yeah...I was trying to make that comment diplomatic...but it's hard when you mention someone's age!

Quoting CatLuvr83:“ You're letting her cio? at 10 months? She's just a baby for crying out loud! She cries b/c she has a ... [snip!] ... apply to you at all...but you're 17. I'm thinking this is the biggest reason you're more easily frustrated w/ her crying.”

just because she is 17 has nothing to do with it theres no reason you need to be pointing out her age. We all get frustrated at times....

Quoting CatLuvr83:“ You're letting her cio? at 10 months? She's just a baby for crying out loud! She cries b/c she has a ... [snip!] ... apply to you at all...but you're 17. I'm thinking this is the biggest reason you're more easily frustrated w/ her crying.”

That sounded a little harsh to me.

Quoting CatLuvr83:“ You're letting her cio? at 10 months? She's just a baby for crying out loud! She cries b/c she has a ... [snip!] ... apply to you at all...but you're 17. I'm thinking this is the biggest reason you're more easily frustrated w/ her crying.”

I dont think that age as anything to do with it. Im a young mommy myself and the main person who takes care of my son. I dont get to frustrated and i think that is normal when you dont know whats wrong and etc. I know mothers who are older them me that cant take care of a kid like i can.. so age isnt what should be the matter and people do mature at different ages.

Quoting CatLuvr83:“ You're letting her cio? at 10 months? She's just a baby for crying out loud! She cries b/c she has a ... [snip!] ... apply to you at all...but you're 17. I'm thinking this is the biggest reason you're more easily frustrated w/ her crying.”

10 months to cio is ok..Her being 17 has nothing to do with it! Mikaila started getting really whiny and fussy at times when she was 10 months old. The baby could be teething or something else or could just be crying for no reason. At 10 months they do that. Just wait until your baby is older!

Quoting pregnantmama3:“ It's her age and yelling is not going to do anything but make her more upset but I do understand your ... [snip!] ... but I do understand your frustration! If you find yourself getting mad put her down walk away and sit for a minute to relax!”

VWS!

Quoting CatLuvr83:“ Yeah...I was trying to make that comment diplomatic...but it's hard when you mention someone's age!”

very true... I just wish some of these people would pick up one of those things with pages and words..... what's that called again??? Oh, yeah, a book!!! And it's not enough to read about pregnancy.... I think books on childhood development should be mandatory reading for soon-to-be parents. Then thet would know about things like separation anxiety and normal growth pattern that can cause irritabilty in children.