Why does this bother me?

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Your husband tells other women that??   That's messed up.

Well I think you're beautiful. So smile  

Maybe he doesn't find pregnancy attractive? If my husband said smurf like that about another woman but never to me, I know we would have some issues to work out.

I would be hurt.   Especially because you already told him and he still won't.

Quoting Mayhem.:" Maybe he doesn't find pregnancy attractive? If my husband said smurf like that about another woman but never to me, I know we would have some issues to work out."

This. I think that's inappropriate for him to say those things about other women but not about you.

Oh and you are very pretty!!

Quoting eKnuckles:" Your husband tells other women that??   That's messed up."

  

That would seriously bother me.

You're not wrong to feel like that. It's nice to be complimented every now & again. It's not hard for him to make the effort.

Quoting eKnuckles:" Your husband tells other women that??   That's messed up."

as far as I know it was only 1... a co worker and is saw the messages on his FB. and she was sending titty pics...

yeah thinking abouot it makes me so mad.. and when I bring THAT up he gets offensive too. I am just so over it I feel like..

other people tell me im pretty and stunning and gorgeous... and since i moved to NM i have been asked out 3 times now.. i mean idk. I just want to hear it from HIM. i want him to want him.. he just wants my vagina..uses it and then rolls over. thats what I feel like. I mean we joke and laugh and have fun... but we lost the love..

If my husband said that to other women, I would be pissed and heartbroken.

If my husband said that to other women and NOT ME, I would be devastated. That is a huge problem and that is not okay, IMO. Especially if you've told him you just want a compliment every now and then and he still won't.

Quoting Mayhem.:" Maybe he doesn't find pregnancy attractive? If my husband said smurf like that about another woman but never to me, I know we would have some issues to work out."

honestly i thinks its part of the porblem..it has destroyed my body... he doesntl ike pregnancy, i think in all my pregnancies he rubbed my stomach once and it was out at a gathering.. otherwise, he doesnt touch it...

Thats wrong! I'd be hurt too. Some guys (my dh included) just don't get it. Sorry your having a rough day.

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" as far as I know it was only 1... a co worker and is saw the messages on his FB. and she was sending ... [snip!] ... my vagina..uses it and then rolls over. thats what I feel like. I mean we joke and laugh and have fun... but we lost the love.."

Wow. That is definitely crossing the line. How disrespectful to you. Of course he'd get defensive when you bring it up, he hasn't been the best husband. I wish I had some good advice for you  

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" honestly i thinks its part of the porblem..it has destroyed my body... he doesntl ike pregnancy, i ... [snip!] ... think in all my pregnancies he rubbed my stomach once and it was out at a gathering.. otherwise, he doesnt touch it... "

Please don't take offense to this but if your husband does not like pregnancy, why are you pregnant?

Quoting Daenerys™:" Please don't take offense to this but if your husband does not like pregnancy, why are you pregnant? "

we didnt mean to get pregnant...
and he isnt like grossed out by it. he still has sex with me.. but I just think he doesnt like me pregnant..like my body..