Quoting clay matthews:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Two Princesses:</b>" My two year old was 5 pounds 14 OZ at ... [snip!] ... to fetal distress; his heart rate went down and didn't come back up. Had we not done the c/s right THEN he would have died."
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" See I feel the opposite of you fiance lol I feel like you ob is being a no it all and your peri is trying ... [snip!] ... go that way but if you want to try for a vbac find a dr that will support that. ETA - Based on what you have told us that is."
Quoting Honey&E:" My midwife is a CNM - certified nurse midwife. She delivers at hospitals and it completely covered ... [snip!] ... she was with me during my daughter's labor and supported me through my c-section. She is helping me get to a VBAC this time. "
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Can't beat free!!! Hot damn! lol"
Quoting Two Princesses:" He said my insurance wouldn't give him anything for it, but that he didn't mind doing it while already in there. So I'm not selfish if I do opt for the repeat CS am I?"
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" I don't think so. I think even if you are the slightest bit fearful for a vbac go for the csection. ... [snip!] ... vbac go for the csection. The tube tying is also a good incentive and plus you are comfy with your doc and that is important."
Quoting Two Princesses:" Thank you for the support. I need to really do some soul searching before I decide."
Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:" Oh and also remember that if you are fearing vbac the longer you go between pregnancies the better...2 ... [snip!] ... the better...2 yrs is a good distance for healing so if you decide to go that route the odds are in your favor. No prob!"