re: XXXXX

I read to page 13 so if I missed anything then my bad.

OP, can you just share with us the actual email address the message was sent from?

Quoting Derp:" I read to page 13 so if I missed anything then my bad. OP, can you just share with us the actual email address the message was sent from?"

That would be smart. Give everyone on here the email address so we can spam them with hateful messages of torches and pitch forks.

Quoting Derp:" I read to page 13 so if I missed anything then my bad. OP, can you just share with us the actual email address the message was sent from?"

That would be exploiting someone's privacy here, which is a bannable offense.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" That would be smart. Give everyone on here the email address so we can spam them with hateful messages of torches and pitch forks."

Not where I was going with that but okay. I didn't think the OP would mind sharing the e-mail sine this thread is now in TDC. It would enable people to find out who it is [much easier] too. I would think OP would want to figure that out so she could deal with that person accordingly but who knows.

Quoting Derp:" Not where I was going with that but okay. I didn't think the OP would mind sharing the e-mail sine this ... [snip!] ... [much easier] too. I would think OP would want to figure that out so she could deal with that person accordingly but who knows."

So why exactly is it that you want to know who the person is or wish to figure it out? Mind your own business. Goddamn.

Quoting Squid Kid:" That would be exploiting someone's privacy here, which is a bannable offense."

Which is exactly what this person did to you by tracking down your husband's personal e-mail and utilizing it for negative purposes. If it was one member e-mailing another about some kind of discrepency or something posted then fine but according to you this person went through the trouble of tracking down your husband's e-mail which probably wasn't easy to begin with (unless you directly link to your Facebook and that links to his and he shares his e-mail with the public or something). Then again if it's someone who knows you personally and therefore had easy access to his e-mail via social networks or common knowledge then I would think you would really wanna figure out who it is trying to cause drama in your relationship.

Quoting Derp:" Which is exactly what this person did to you by tracking down your husband's personal e-mail and utilizing ... [snip!] ... or common knowledge then I would think you would really wanna figure out who it is trying to cause drama in your relationship."

And finding that out would be between her and Mara. Not your place. Who the smurf are you anyways? Nosy ass bitch.

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" So why exactly is it that you want to know who the person is or wish to figure it out? Mind your own business. Goddamn."

Mind my own business? This was posted on a public website with tens of thousands of followers who regularly visit on a daily basis. If privacy was a concern then OP should never have posted information about her relationship to begin with. That's a common sense sort of thing.

Besides, all I did was ask about a freaking e-mail address. I didn't attack the OP or dismantle her story in any way whatsoever. I'm not sure how me asking for an e-mail warrants not just one but two snarky responses in a row but maybe I'm a bit too laid back for this kind of stuff. I really can't be bothered to engage myself deeply which is why my original post was two sentences long despite having read a majority of the thread. I saw no reason to say the same thing 100 other people had said already so I just stuck with asking my one little question. Jeez.

Anyway, if OP is convinced her business is in need of privacy she might want to consider not sharing it here. Just at thought. With that I'm done with this, I'm not going to get into it when someone clearly doesn't want anyone's help to begin with. Enjoy the thread.

Quoting Derp:" Which is exactly what this person did to you by tracking down your husband's personal e-mail and utilizing ... [snip!] ... or common knowledge then I would think you would really wanna figure out who it is trying to cause drama in your relationship."

We aleady tried tracking the ISP but it hit a server before coming to us, so it can't be tracked, meaning they either put some honest to god effort into it, or they were at work when they did it. They contacted my husband through his website and online resume, which I don't know how the hell someone would find. My facebook is unsearchable.

Chances are, it's a fake email for sake of being anonymous and causing smurf.

Quoting Derp:" Mind my own business? This was posted on a public website with tens of thousands of followers who regularly ... [snip!] ... done with this, I'm not going to get into it when someone clearly doesn't want anyone's help to begin with. Enjoy the thread."

Why do YOU need the email address? Oh that's right, you don't so asking for it is smurfing stupid and THAT is what is none of your business.

Quoting Derp:" Mind my own business? This was posted on a public website with tens of thousands of followers who regularly ... [snip!] ... done with this, I'm not going to get into it when someone clearly doesn't want anyone's help to begin with. Enjoy the thread."

Good god, for the last time, "privacy" from my DH is not an issue. It's the fact some smurf thinks they can be some kind of relationship vigilante and start smurf.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" Why do YOU need the email address? Oh that's right, you don't so asking for it is smurfing stupid and THAT is what is none of your business."</blockquote>




Omg STFU with your smurf talking. Bad mood much? All she did was ask, all that was said was no, get the hell over it, go have a drink a smoke or get laid lol

Quoting Take me as I am:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Devil's Advocate:</b>" Why do YOU need the email address? Oh ... [snip!] ... Bad mood much? All she did was ask, all that was said was no, get the hell over it, go have a drink a smoke or get laid lol"

I think you should be the one to STFU, it was none of her smurfing business, she just wanted it to be smurfing nosy

Who cares who it is get over it, it happened sorry I guess that it happened to you... But seriously, you're looking for more drama now.  
This thread...
Honestly...
Just wow.

Quoting Chels :3:" Who cares who it is get over it, it happened sorry I guess that it happened to you... But seriously, you're looking for more drama now.   This thread... Honestly... Just wow."

Who cares, it's over now, she's already said that it wasn't about what was being said, sorry I guess that you suffered through reading it...But seriously, you could have hit the big red X if it bothered you that much.  

Trollin' the drama corner...
Honestly...
Just wow.