<blockquote><b>Quoting JessicaMatlock :</b>" he just isn't good. when we got together we waited to have sex and I fell in love with his personality ... [snip!] ... he's done I tend to just get my self off... but he's going to start getting into shape and hopefully it helps the sex life.."</blockquote>


Like everyone else said you guys should talk about it. We are very open and want to please each other. I can't orgasm alone. Like we always go at the same time. If he's it ready I just can't release and the same with him. We do a lot of foreplay too so by the time we actually have sex we are fast Haha.

oh we've talked about it.. and hes even admitted to know he isnt even the best ive had.. but also im not some who will base a whole relationship on sex.. i can really go months and months and months with out it and not miss it.. i just dont have the sex drive most girls have after 10 years lol