Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dallas ♥ Isla:</b>" I know exactly how you feel. my ... [snip!] ... just scares the smurf out of me so I know all this is the lesser of the two evils but it's still upsetting to say the least."
they did a few ultrasounds in the last few weeks and kept saying something was in the way of seeing the end of the placenta so they couldn't get a measurement. *eye roll* "she must have really long hair or something"
finally they decided it moved slightly to the minimun they'd allow me to have a vaginal birth with, but if I decided to do it I'd need to be in high risk and prepared for csection.
makes me mad to think about.
the doctor who delivered also failed to tell me anything that happened. I found out about the VP from a nurse who came in to see my "miracle baby"
even my midwife knew and didnt tell me right away. like they were keeping it from me and expecting her to just be okay and not have to deal with the fact that they effed up. it was so confusing and i was so angry and upset.
I went from thinking everything was perfect to finding out she could have died and then she stopped breathing and was in NICU and transfered to another city because of something they didnt bother to inform me of.
I dont even know what I'd have done if she died. they did so many things wrong.
when my midwife finally explained everything to me I wanted to punch her.
she was there and should have told me the moment she knew the blood wasnt mine,. not wait until the baby takes a turn for the worst.
sorry I went ranty there
like I said before.. I am so happy you're being cared for properly
I hate my hospital