Vent sorta.
posted 22nd Jan
I just had my daughter the 17th. It's my boyfriends first kid. He gets mad at me everytime I wake him during the night or when I wake him in the morning. Yells at me that I always gotta wake him why can't he just wake up on his own. He hasn't even changed her diaper at least once . It's over whelming me that I have to do everything while he sits there and. Does nothing or whatever he feels like doing. Has anyone else dealt wit stuff like this?
quoteposted 22nd Jan
Have you tried talking to him? Explain that it's his child too, and you'd appreciate some help.
Does he work and you stay home? If he works full time and/or goes to school, then IMO it is more on you, since you have more off time to rest.
quoteposted 22nd Jan
Yup! I left him when my son was 7 weeks old and found a MAN before my sons 1st birthday who adopted my son because bd was a piece of shot. good luck!
quoteposted 22nd Jan
HEs really good wit my first but now seems he doesn't wanna do any of the hard work
quoteposted 22nd Jan
Screwwww that. Unless he's working and paying for everything. Then I would agree with it. DH takes care of the kids at least one day a week to give me a break, he pays rent and I pay utilities. And he's a full time student.
quoteposted 22nd Jan
He pays for everything
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