help me out here *kinda dumb*

So in 2011, DH and i had broken up. we broke up in either March or April (not 100% sure), but i continued living with him till August. ok, here is where the debate comes in. the beginning of Aug is when i moved out. i went from my cousin's house (for 1 day), then to my uncle's ex wife's (for 2 wks) then to DH's cousin's house. i don't remember how long i stayed with them (when it started exactly) but i know that the last wknd i spent there was the wknd of my birthday (Aug 27). my LMP before finding out i was pregnant, was Aug 22. the following tues or wed (30-31) i was kicked out. i moved back in with DH. we were still broken up but hooked up a few times anyway. found out Sept 26th that i was pregnant. Oct. 28th was my 1st ultrasound, they determined i was 9 wks 1-3 days (again can't remember exactly). at 1st i was told that i conceived on Sept 5. when did i conceive? if i go back 9 wks from the ultrasound id have gotten preg Aug 26th which is impossible. someone explain this too me.


also, if you had someone living with you, single, how would you take them getting pregnant? DH's cousin seems to think i got pregnant while living with her, again, impossible. she seems mad? annoyed? aggravated? when it's brought up. in a "how dare you manner". do you think it was any of their business?

I think they go 2 weeks after your last period when they do due dates but im not %100. I dont think its any of your cousins business if you got pregnant while you were living at her house

You could have ovulated a little early & I don't think its any of her business whether or not you got pregnant while living with her. Your grown lol

Not sure how they determine due dates, but if it falls into the time you lived with the cousin even if it is impossible I would say it is her/his bussiness. It is their house after all.

Quoting Misty Walls:" I think they go 2 weeks after your last period when they do due dates but im not %100. I dont think its any of your cousins business if you got pregnant while you were living at her house"

it was actually DH cousin. idk if she truly believes that or if she's just trying to make me look bad "got pregnant while bouncing from place to place. what a tramp" kind of deal. a lot of ppl think i did it to trap him. as you can imagine, this hurts me and DH esp coming from our families.

Quoting Tara Howell-Straight:" Not sure how they determine due dates, but if it falls into the time you lived with the cousin even if it is impossible I would say it is her/his bussiness. It is their house after all."

i can see this point if i was planning to stay there an extended time. they knew when i moved in it was only temporary, though they never told me. it was impossible because i wasn't even around DH till the day i got kicked out and we didn't have sex till like a wk later or so.

If the 22nd was the first day of your LMP then you would have conceived August 29th, but sperm live for 5 days so you could have conceived all the way up until September 3rd! Did you guys have sex as soon as you moved back in??

I understand you said it was impossible just stating if I was cousin I might be a little peeved LOL...hope everything works out for you though.

<blockquote><b>Quoting LilyRain12:</b>" it was actually DH cousin. idk if she truly believes that or if she's just trying to make me look bad ... [snip!] ... kind of deal. a lot of ppl think i did it to trap him. as you can imagine, this hurts me and DH esp coming from our families."</blockquote>




Maybe she thinks you got pregnant in her home?

Quoting S U Z I E:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LilyRain12:</b>" it was actually DH cousin. idk if she truly ... [snip!] ... this hurts me and DH esp coming from our families."</blockquote> Maybe she thinks you got pregnant in her home?"

that's what i mean, i couldn't have because DH wasn't around. he was too pissed to even talk to me till the day i moved back in with him. we had sex i'd say within a wk of moving in.