Quoting Red Bottom:" Honestly, these don't sound like real problems. The man likes popsicles. You keep getting them for ... [snip!] ... and get popsicles. If you don't want to, don't do it. The world will not end. I'm sure he's depressed about losing his job. "
The whole popsicle thing, I just needed to vent on that one since it's just driving me crazy. I know sounds stupid but I have been telling him now, but I just mean now that he is home all he wants to do is eat. And he freaking hides the Debbie cakes from me so he can eat those to, when he claims he HATED sweets. I buy them to eat, but I don't buy them to be eaten in one day.
The insecurity thing is because of him. He makes fun of my stretch marks, and I thought they were beautiful and what not but he turned right around and was talking about me being "all stretched up". The calorie thing about how he doesn't want me to shed any calories, I am damn 33 and a half weeks pregnant. It hurts my feeling that he basically is calling me fat. It doesn't bother me when other people tell me I am about to pop, because I know they just mean wow you've really gotten out there and we know it's almost time for your due date. But when he comments he doesn't say anything along those lines, usually I won't care what he has to say, but when he makes a comment that makes me cry that is when he should realize he went to far. He moos at me and stuff to or well he has before and that just makes me feel like a fat cow. And to try to make it better he says you wanted it so your welcome. Yes I wanted a baby but you don't have to be so mean to me right now. And the porn thing it really is something. I usually don't care if he does but when he claims "I'm just not in the mood to have sex" and I catch him turning the computer away from me so I don't know that he is looking at other women I mean if he had sex with me it wouldn't bother me. But he doesn't. It just drives me nuts. And the other stuff just drives me insane so I needed to get that out there.