re: NYU student roommate with single mom and four year old

<blockquote><b>Quoting Laneys*Mama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" in my dorm you had to live together ... [snip!] ... and it was hard to get a switch. I don't think I would want to live with a 4 year old that wasn't mine, or a drunken slut lol"</blockquote>

Some schools will do emergency switches. SO had an emergency switch when he walked in on his roommate smurfing some chick in His bed. Wtf dude. You have your own bed right there   creeper. He went and they switched him that day luckily.

While I definitely agree that the child should not be living in a dorm, I DO think the other girl was being a huge bitch about the whole thing.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Laneys*Mama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's ... [snip!] ... chick in His bed. Wtf dude. You have your own bed right there   creeper. He went and they switched him that day luckily."

Seriously?! That's so disrespectful. I couldn't live in a dorm, people are so rude and inconsiderate.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Laneys*Mama:</b>" Seriously?! That's so disrespectful. I couldn't live in a dorm, people are so rude and inconsiderate."</blockquote>

Yup. Thats why I never wanted the traditional college experience. harness no desire for that. I went to community college first haha

Quoting TnT+1:" Well i do not believe a child should be living in a dorm room, i think that girl is an out right bitch, ... [snip!] ... Snellgrove pointed out." What "consequences" is she facing because of her roommates "life decisions"? Come on now."

Children are consequences of sex, having sex is a life decision, so is choosing to carry a pregnancy/ care for a child... ergo caring for a child is the consequence of life decisions. This is just a fact.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" While I definitely agree that the child should not be living in a dorm, I DO think the other girl was being a huge bitch about the whole thing. "

I'd be a huge bitch about it too. Do you know how much it cost to live in a dorm? A lot. It cost more than traditional housing in some cases. I did the math once and a semester in a dorm was over $600 a month to live in a room smaller than my room at home with a roomate   There's no way in hail I'd be happy or nice about sharing a room with a teenager and a four year old and paying for it. No way. No how. In fact, I was a huge bitch with my dorm mate and wasn't in the least bit nice about half the smurf she did. She came home drunk one night puking and smurf. I held her head and made sure she didn't puke on me or my stuff. Told her in the AM that if she did it again I'd let her roll around in her own vomit. She came home the next weekend drunk as a skunk, I left and let her roll in it. She never did that again. Oh, and she tried to bring her boyfriend to spend the night one night, I told her no smurfing way and that I'd report her (it was against the rules). Yeah.. huge bitch but I had to live there too.

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" I'd be a huge bitch about it too. Do you know how much it cost to live in a dorm? A lot. It cost more ... [snip!] ... I told her no smurfing way and that I'd report her (it was against the rules). Yeah.. huge bitch but I had to live there too."

I know how much it costs, I know what it's about....and yes, I still think she was a ridiculous bitch.

Quoting LolaMcKitten:" I know how much it costs, I know what it's about....and yes, I still think she was a ridiculous bitch. "

KNOWING the cost, wouldn't you be a big bitch too? I think you would be. I know I would be.

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" KNOWING the cost, wouldn't you be a big bitch too? I think you would be. I know I would be."

Not like that, I wouldn't be, there are other ways of going about it. Especially considering the fact that I was a young single mom / college student, so as stupid as it is to try living in a dorm with a kid - I feel for her and wouldn't try to publicly shame her for attempting to make something of herself. Think what you want - I don't agree with her at all.

Hell, I'd rather live with a 4 year old over the typical drunk college girl LOL But I can see why she'd be annoyed by that. You shouldn't have to live with someone elses child in a situation like that. But why in the world was her kid even IN that dorm in the first place? I thought they had family housing for those types of situations.....eh

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" Children are consequences of sex, having sex is a life decision, so is choosing to carry a pregnancy/ ... [snip!] ... to carry a pregnancy/ care for a child... ergo caring for a child is the consequence of life decisions. This is just a fact."

Yeah, i get that. But what consequences is the ROOMMATE facing? That was what i said.

Quoting Fatty McRunnerPants:" I'd be a huge bitch about it too. Do you know how much it cost to live in a dorm? A lot. It cost more ... [snip!] ... I told her no smurfing way and that I'd report her (it was against the rules). Yeah.. huge bitch but I had to live there too."

 

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Laneys*Mama:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's ... [snip!] ... chick in His bed. Wtf dude. You have your own bed right there   creeper. He went and they switched him that day luckily."

she was my best friend too. my bf who used to be friends with her too in h/s texted her and told her that she wasnt a slut so stop degrading herself and acting like one everyone didnt want to see her naked ass all the time. her stepdad called us both and threatened us so i screamed at him and told him what his little darling was up to and i hung up lol. i got out of the room that night.