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You are linking directly to these Facebook pages....I would delete this and start over.

wtf? I'm not reading all that....

i tried i cant figure out how to unlink it how do you/

I could barely read any of that.

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I do find it odd that he'd have the daughter sleep in his bed, but I'm not sure that in and of itself proves anything. I would have her talk to her daughter before going to a doctor. If there was nothing going on, the exam and everything to check for molestation could be very traumatizing.

I could barely understand any of that but I didn't really see any "signs" of molestation

It sounds like you are planting seeds. Asking lots of questions. I would suggest she take her to the dr. But that's it. None of the other stuff. I slept with my dad when I was little when he had visitation and he was never inappropriate.

Quoting Cnc1990:" i tried i cant figure out how to unlink it how do you/"

Delete the names.

Also, why would it be okay for it to happen for months and months while they were living together, but now they are "kicked out" all of a sudden he is a molester?

I think they both of your are jumping to accusiations. She's upset because he kicked her out, she's not thinking through things and you're making up your own story as to what happened.

Molestation isn't something to be taken lightly or something you can really come up with through a fb message.  

Wtf?! I was terrified of my father sometimes because he & my mother had an abusive relationship occasionally. I slept in the bed with him & that doesn't mean he molested me! Being afraid of someone is not always a sign. Why not ASK the little girl before you accuse a man of touching his daughter with no real proof.

Your C&P links right to the FB pages, and I couldn't read it all, that is a LOT of headache inducing grammar. Sorry.

that was very hard to understand..but why would she have been okay with him sleeping in bed with her alone until now. Would he lock the door when they were alone?....you are right about the custody and she should go and take him for child support and I'd take her to the doctor and share my concerns with a doctor she's comfortable with.

That was the most painfully grammatically incorrect and factually incorrect conversation that I have ever read.

#1 him not wanting to get married doesn't matter.
#2 him wanting to look at other women doesn't matter.
#3 he's her father, whether they were married or not. He has just as much custody as she does.
#4 why are you two planning to make him look unfit?
#5 no 4 year old is going to understand what molestation is, unless there are signs, I wouldn't even bring it up. Otherwise you're planting a seed, whether or not it happened.
#6 people cosleep ALL THE TIME. Is it shady when a mom sleeps with their child? Why is it shady if a dad does?
#7 if molestation had been a thought, she wouldn't have just slipped it in the end of the conversation when YOU brought it up.

You two seem just as slimy as he is, and I hope you both grow up.