now he tells me

my boyfriend decides to tell me at dinner that if I were 9 weeks at the time of the abortion he would have supported my decision not to go through with it. I was 8 weeks and 1 day. really?! I can't stop crying. How dare he tell me that?! I mean really. now he says he wishes he hadn't pressured me and that he would have just manned up and supported me when j said I didn't want the abortion. Im so angry. why would he tell me this now? It's a little too late now.

What difference would a few days make to him? I'm sorry you got pressured into something you didn't really want to do.

I would have slapped him.   Awh... Im sorry... I wouldnt even be able to look him in the eyes anymore.

I'm very sorry. He shouldn't have said anything.  

Wow.. That was an insensitive comment..  

If you didn't want too, why did you?

Im sry hun, he shouldnt of said that...
*hugs..

Quoting Rebecca Brown*:" If you didn't want too, why did you?"

Because she thought that would be the best thing in her situation to do.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I would have slapped him.   Awh... Im sorry... I wouldnt even be able to look him in the eyes anymore. "</blockquote>




I can't look at him. he keeps saying how selfish he feels and how he blames himself. I don't even know what to say. Did he want me to try and convince him not to feel bad? no sorry. Not gonna do that.

I, personally, would never let someone pressure me into something like that. That's just me. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. -hugs-

Quoting pretty 'n' pink:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" I would have slapped him.   Awh... ... [snip!] ... himself. I don't even know what to say. Did he want me to try and convince him not to feel bad? no sorry. Not gonna do that."

I wouldnt even be with him after something like that.   Im sorry. What a douche.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Because she thought that would be the best thing in her situation to do. "

Or did she do it simply because her boyfriend didn't want anything to do with it?

I am so incredibly sorry you are dealing with this. I hope he realizes how insensitive and upsetting his comments were.

If you ever need to talk, please do not hesitate to PM me.

I would leave a man that mentally tortured me like that.

It's been so sad to see you go back and forth, and it was obvious that he was the major force pushing you to do it.

How dare he make you feel like that.


I'm sorry.  

Quoting Rebecca Brown*:" Or did she do it simply because her boyfriend didn't want anything to do with it?"

No. She did it because she thought it would be best in her situation. She had been back and forth on it for a while, and then thought it would be for the best to do it.