im so done. vent :(

I just cant take feeling like smurf. I'm so over my marriage. I am tired of being told to shut the smurf up all the time. I'm tored of hearing dh being rude. I'm tired of being with a man whi thinks its appropriate to involve himself in my gfs love lives. I'm tired of hearing him make sleazy comments to other woman. I'm tired of seeing him bully our son. I'm tired of feeling luke I have to compete with porn. I'm tired of coming second to everything. I'm just tired of feeling like I'm settling for smurf. He says I cant get no better and the grass isn't greeber on the ither side... he's a stupid smurfing prick. Oh and I am tiref of him trying to use our children against me.

From now on, I will only speak to him if I have to I will be savin my money to get out and a lawyer.

Good for you!

Bullying your son? What a dick. I'm sorry momma. I hope you can get out soon, no one deserves to be treated like that.

You deserve so much better.
And you know what? The grass sometimes IS greener on the other side.



Good luck, mama. <3

you deserve better and he sounds like a smurffy excuse for a husband/man. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Good Luck to you.

Wow!! No way I'd put up with that. Sounds miserable

He sounds like a real jerk. I am sorry you are going through this. I wish you all the luck in the world in getting out and moving on.

What she said!! Good for you to finally make the decision that is best for your and your kids, because nothing good comes from children seeing their mother treated that way! I always thought I could never do better than the losers and abusers I ended up with. And then I met my current SO.. he is HOT (i'm a fat ass!!) and he WORSHIPS me. I don't even know how to react to it sometimes lol You CAN do better and you WILL don't even worry about that!

Sorry mama!!

And the grass IS greener on the other side. Having no man is better than having that type of "man".

Hugs.

Quoting Mrs. Reynolds:" What she said!! Good for you to finally make the decision that is best for your and your kids, because ... [snip!] ... he WORSHIPS me. I don't even know how to react to it sometimes lol You CAN do better and you WILL don't even worry about that!"

You just described my life exactly. I am glad you found your prince charming like I did  

You shouldn't have to put up with that. Glad you are getting out.
If he ever tells you that you can't find someone like him, thats the point! You can do way better then that   sorry he's being that way.

Hugz

Thanks ladies. I'm getting promoted at work soon with a huge raise.
So that's when ill leave. Until then I'm going to save what I can.

I know how you feel, I'm looking for a job to leave SO... He has a couple months to make things right or I'm gooooone!

That's good your finally leaving you don't deserve to be mistreated at all mentally or physically and he definitely shouldnt be bullying your son and you shouldnt feel like your 2nd at anything
The grass is greener on the other side don't worry about him and just talk to him for the sake of your kids and let that be it
Good luck

There have been two reasons I havent left sooner. 1 os I'm not financially stable yet, two I couldn't imagine having joint custody. I am terrified of him being alone overnight with our kids. His parenting skills are for shi. He seriously is always yelling and spanking ds . He doeant ever do something fun or productive with ds. Like no park no adventures no nothing.