Quoting applelove:" Just say your sorry that you don't have the same feelings. I know you are shocked but a lot of people ... [snip!] ... you or will hurt you or something. Other wise just tell him your not in the same boat but hope you can all remain neighborly "
Oh no, I don't believe he would ever come to my house unless prior invited and I really don't think he would ever hurt me. Up until now I thought he was just a good ol' redneck boy. I mean, him and DH were close for a while there, but they haven't spoken recently because they just had the baby and bought a new trailer to go down on their land so were preoccupied with that and smurf.
I don't even know...Like, he was talking about me keeping DH's cell phone (I turned mine off, I hate cell phones) and texting him and smurf. Like, smurfin no. Wtf. Do I put off a skank vibe or something? Holy smurf. I mean seriously, I've never cheated on my husband despite his own infidelities in the past (DH has cheated on me, but we've been to counseling and a ton of smurf). I don't want to cheat on DH, I hate cheaters, that's stupid. I can't even think straight right now.