So sick of this

I don't know why but latley I just don't want SO to.touch me.  

I don't know how to explain it but he wants to me to cuddle him or something and I just push him off. Don't wanna have sex either.
I feel so bad because I love him and I don't wanna hurt his feelings. But I just do not want to be touched.
I kind of get this feeling like I just can't "relax".

For the past 6 months any time DH touches me sexually I get freaked out and uncomfortable and I don't even know why. I'm fine to have sex, although I don't really want to and I'm fine to do be sexual to him, but if he tries to touch me at al I get really freaked out and it's weird. I don't know if it's because I'm pregnant or what but I wasn't like this with our first baby. I was molested as a child for several years and I kind of feel like that has something to do with it, since it keeps popping in my head lately, but I don't know WHY. Bleh  

Quoting May ♥:" I don't know why but latley I just don't want SO to.touch me.   I don't know how to explain it but ... [snip!] ... I don't wanna hurt his feelings. But I just do not want to be touched. I kind of get this feeling like I just can't "relax"."

Are you pregnant? I can't stand romance or any kind of tenderness from my husband at the moment and it's only been like that since I've been pregnant. Sex is fine but if he tries to kiss me or cuddle, no thank you. lol Sorry I'm not much help but maybe it's just a temporary feeling that will pass. Are you guys having communication issues or any problems that would make you feel distant?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kay Peezy:</b>" Are you pregnant? I can't stand romance or any kind of tenderness from my husband at the moment and it's ... [snip!] ... a temporary feeling that will pass. Are you guys having communication issues or any problems that would make you feel distant?"</blockquote>




I'm not pregnant but we are having quite a few problems latley.

How have you been feeling in general? Could it be PPD maybe? It is normal to want space though, I get like that with SO sometimes too.