re: Hubbs is bein a a**wad

Quoting AppleDumplin:" but he lied! if it was just a nother normal night there is no need for lying!! FML!! i really wish ... [snip!] ... i could go out to my own strip club with my gurls and get plastered and take lots of pictures of me surrounded by hunky dancers"

Then do IT! Just exclude the plastered part. ;)

Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" Then do IT! Just exclude the plastered part. ;)"

i think i will!

in the very leas i will have a real fun night

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" I wouldn't show up either. It's already apparent he's annoyed, so showing up I think would make it worse. He may just want to spend time with the guys. "</blockquote>




Yeah. Showing up is just going to make things worse.

Quoting тᴀỵ 29:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" I wouldn't show up either. It's ... [snip!] ... He may just want to spend time with the guys. "</blockquote> Yeah. Showing up is just going to make things worse."

i want to
but i wont
f him im going to have my own fun

Quoting AppleDumplin:" you wouldnt show up? ive really got it in my mind to do this and its getting harder to get the thought ... [snip!] ... more than i should. i know its got to be a big turnoff for him, but other then that there hasnt been any fighting so i JDK"

No, because I dont play the psycho girlfriend who "pops" up where ever my SO is. Deal with home issues at home.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" No, because I dont play the psycho girlfriend who "pops" up where ever my SO is. Deal with home issues at home. "

were married tho, and he lied to me. im not gonna show, but i think i have each and every right to!

Quoting AppleDumplin:" but he lied! if it was just a nother normal night there is no need for lying!! FML!! i really wish ... [snip!] ... i could go out to my own strip club with my gurls and get plastered and take lots of pictures of me surrounded by hunky dancers"

but showing up is going to make you look incredibly childish.

Quoting AppleDumplin:" were married tho, and he lied to me. im not gonna show, but i think i have each and every right to!"

married, divorced, dating, living together. You don't take your problems elsewhere. Pick your battles. Deal with it when he comes home.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" married, divorced, dating, living together. You don't take your problems elsewhere. Pick your battles. Deal with it when he comes home. "

but the battle is elsewhere hes lying and hes not at home. so if hes having an affair i should ust let it go?
this doesnt make any sense. he took his lie out there and im supposde to sit home and pretend nothing is going on?

agin i am not going there just becase i would rather get even mabey not the best plan, but still

its not like hes going to cheat at home wile im home.

welll im gonna get ready and call my gurls and have a awesome night out with the sexies

<blockquote><b>Quoting тᴀỵ 29:</b>" I would've told him not to worry about coming home tomorrow... or the next day... or the next."</blockquote>


 

Quoting AppleDumplin:" but the battle is elsewhere hes lying and hes not at home. so if hes having an affair i should ust let ... [snip!] ... just becase i would rather get even mabey not the best plan, but still its not like hes going to cheat at home wile im home."

You've already said that you have no reason not to trust him. If he lied to have an affair, after he knows now that you know where he is going to be, he isn't going to cheat.. You really are making yourself sound really childish. And I'm wondering if this isn't why he lied to you in the first place.

My first problem would be that he just texted out of the blue to say he won't be home tonight... Hell no. Get your ass home and let me know what your plans are, your my spouse, it's just common courtesy. If they're going for somebodys birthday, he more than likely knew the plans in advance. &Why does he have to spend the night elsewhere when you are quite willing to pick him up? IMO when you become a family, you grow the smurf up. Go out, have a good night but there is no need for adult sleepovers. There is nothing psycho about a women demanding the respect that she deserves by standing up for herself.

I hate how people imply that there is ever a good reason for lying to your partner. Gtfo with that.

Quoting тᴀỵ 29:" I would've told him not to worry about coming home tomorrow... or the next day... or the next."

Lol, I'd say this too.

Quoting AppleDumplin:" He is still at work an just texted me that he wont be coming home tonite says he has plans to go out ... [snip!] ... has caused him to get so mad today what should i do? I have half a mind to show up at the strip club and makes his night hell"

What the hell?! If my husband tried that, the locks would be changed when he tried to come home. EFF that. I do not tolerate lying at all. If I were you, I wouldn't show up because you're just going to make yourself look like a fool. Set some boundaries that will make him understand that behavior is simply unacceptable.