Quoting AppleDumplin:" but he lied! if it was just a nother normal night there is no need for lying!! FML!! i really wish ... [snip!] ... i could go out to my own strip club with my gurls and get plastered and take lots of pictures of me surrounded by hunky dancers"Then do IT! Just exclude the plastered part. ;)
Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" Then do IT! Just exclude the plastered part. ;)"i think i will!
Quoting тᴀỵ 29:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" I wouldn't show up either. It's ... [snip!] ... He may just want to spend time with the guys. "</blockquote> Yeah. Showing up is just going to make things worse."
Quoting AppleDumplin:" you wouldnt show up? ive really got it in my mind to do this and its getting harder to get the thought ... [snip!] ... more than i should. i know its got to be a big turnoff for him, but other then that there hasnt been any fighting so i JDK"
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" No, because I dont play the psycho girlfriend who "pops" up where ever my SO is. Deal with home issues at home. "
Quoting AppleDumplin:" but he lied! if it was just a nother normal night there is no need for lying!! FML!! i really wish ... [snip!] ... i could go out to my own strip club with my gurls and get plastered and take lots of pictures of me surrounded by hunky dancers"
Quoting AppleDumplin:" were married tho, and he lied to me. im not gonna show, but i think i have each and every right to!"
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" married, divorced, dating, living together. You don't take your problems elsewhere. Pick your battles. Deal with it when he comes home. "
Quoting AppleDumplin:" but the battle is elsewhere hes lying and hes not at home. so if hes having an affair i should ust let ... [snip!] ... just becase i would rather get even mabey not the best plan, but still its not like hes going to cheat at home wile im home."You've already said that you have no reason not to trust him. If he lied to have an affair, after he knows now that you know where he is going to be, he isn't going to cheat.. You really are making yourself sound really childish. And I'm wondering if this isn't why he lied to you in the first place.
Quoting тᴀỵ 29:" I would've told him not to worry about coming home tomorrow... or the next day... or the next."Lol, I'd say this too.
Quoting AppleDumplin:" He is still at work an just texted me that he wont be coming home tonite says he has plans to go out ... [snip!] ... has caused him to get so mad today what should i do? I have half a mind to show up at the strip club and makes his night hell"What the hell?! If my husband tried that, the locks would be changed when he tried to come home. EFF that. I do not tolerate lying at all. If I were you, I wouldn't show up because you're just going to make yourself look like a fool. Set some boundaries that will make him understand that behavior is simply unacceptable.