How did you get over a M/C...

How did you "get over" your miscarriage? How long did it take?



Its been almost 4 months, at first I acted like it wasnt a big deal- I tried to be strong and didnt wanna talk about it..... it still kills me, inside. Ugh. Im terrified to get pregnant again but want to, I just feel so lost/ confused/ uncertain.

I've never "gotten over" my miscarriages....... Just learned to deal with it and move on, nothing you do can change what has happened.

I'm sorry for your loss <3 It does get better as time goes on, at least it has for me.

Quoting forgive-n let*love:" How did you "get over" your miscarriage? How long did it take? Its been almost 4 months, at first ... [snip!] ... it still kills me, inside. Ugh. Im terrified to get pregnant again but want to, I just feel so lost/ confused/ uncertain."

Honestly, I just looked at them from the stand point that something wasn't right and that god didn't want them to be here to suffer so he took them back. Then I decided that I would just let it be what it was. Of course, I am one of those that can detach pretty quickly.

There is no time limit or secret trick. It is all really on you and how you deal with it. We are all different. I have had 5 in a long struggle of fertility issues along with several years of not even so much as a faint line. You grieve how you need to and don't allow anyone to tell you any different.
~hugs

I'm sorry for your loss. I had two back to back miscarriages, and the only thing that got me over them was becoming pregnant with LO. It certainly wasn't easy, because I always blamed myself for them. Please stay strong, momma.

*Hugs*

Thanks!!


I kinda feel like Im expected to "be over it" by now? I bought a baby-shower gift over the weekend and it was SO HARD, I almost got all choked up in the store. :-( I normally LOVE buying baby things. Ive never blamed myself (thankfully) but SO blamed himself.... ugh

Im still not over it. The first few months i couldnt even look at a newborn without tearing up. I cried on my due date. It is just hard. But i tried again anyway and im a nervous wreck but two ultrasounds later baby is fine, and i think i can breathe again.