Quoting forgive-n let*love:" How did you "get over" your miscarriage? How long did it take? Its been almost 4 months, at first ... [snip!] ... it still kills me, inside. Ugh. Im terrified to get pregnant again but want to, I just feel so lost/ confused/ uncertain."
Honestly, I just looked at them from the stand point that something wasn't right and that god didn't want them to be here to suffer so he took them back. Then I decided that I would just let it be what it was. Of course, I am one of those that can detach pretty quickly.
There is no time limit or secret trick. It is all really on you and how you deal with it. We are all different. I have had 5 in a long struggle of fertility issues along with several years of not even so much as a faint line. You grieve how you need to and don't allow anyone to tell you any different.