Alone

How is it possible to feel alone in ur pregnancy, when ur not? I'm pregnant and living with my bf. Ever since I found out I was pregnant. Our relationship changed. They say a pregnancy can either help ur relationship or not. Sadly to say its true. My bf ain't attentive how I thought he would be. All my friends had good pregnancies. Their partners were emotionally supportive. My bf thinks being pregnant is a piece of cake. U just carry it n an excuse to b lazy. The beginning of my pregnancy was bad. I had severe morning sickness all day. I couldn't keep anything down. I was always tired. And my bf would get upset at me. Like I was able to control it. We would always fight over me feeling sick. Said I changed n I was just making excuses n being lazy. Our another issue is still our main problem in our pregnancy;sex! I haven't been feeling easily aroused so that makes it harder for me to want to have sex. We still have sex almost everyday as before. But its different. Cause I don't try. N my bf is very sexually active. He don't understand that its not that I don't want to. Its hard for me to get atoused with the constipation, gas, fatigue and mood swings.How can I be to him that I'm not lying to him I feel. I want him to understand me. Just cause he is physically here doesn't mean he is actually here. I need him emotionally mentally and physically.  

I felt like that when I was pregnant with DD and DH just didn't get it. I never wanted sex and that's all he wanted. He would give me crap about it and also go on and on about how I didn't ever do anything blah blah blah. It took a big tool on our relationship and he just didn't get it. Every since we had DD he gas turned around and is a great father and our relationship is better. Im pregnant with number 2 and he Is much more understanding. Some guys just don't get pregnancy.Hopefully he will change once baby is here