Quoting justanothamotha:" It is hard early on. Don't bottle though, that is no good either. Maybe try writing it out. Never arguing ... [snip!] ... & with him. You'll find your new normal. It just takes a little time to see where the new pieces fit into that puzzle."
Maybe you could do a search for a PPD thread? Or see if any of your BG friends are willing to give you their phone number for when you need someone to talk to? I know I have a phone relationship with a BG mama. We dont talk everyday but I know I can call her when I need some advice, an outside opinion or just a listening ear..