Quoting cupcakexo:" I have just now decided to stop looking at propoganda online and see if anybody out there that has been ... [snip!] ... that this is not how I want to spend the rest of my life or relying on him never being able to stand on my own two feet again."
As everyone else said, I would find a different clinic! Have you tried Planned Parenthood? That's where I had mine done. IDK for sure, but I'm pretty sure 14 weeks would be considered a late-term abortion? Unless it's 16 weeks... Either way, I'm sure you'll be just fine! Just make sure you NEVER go back to him and end up in this exact situation again! You're not really "lucky
" that he wants to be with you, if he is an abusive, controlling smurf! I was in your exact situation, except I was 17 weeks, so that might be the reason for the procedure I personally had. Anyway, I was put to sleep for the actual procedure. Mine took two days. The first part of the procedure, I was put under "twilight
" sedation. Just be prepared for them to try and tell you that you're further along than you think you are. They tried telling me that I was 19 weeks (which wasn't even possible..), just so that they could get more money from me!
It was $200 more for every week after 16 weeks. My grandma gave them hell, since she was the one paying for it, and they finally agreed to go along with 17 weeks when they realized she was NOT budging on the extra money subject... Some people regret it and think about it every day for the rest of their life, some people have regrets but it gets easier for them with time and some people (me..) have no regrets at all! If you have any other questions or need to talk about it some more, feel free to PM me!
Good luck! I wish you all the best!