Growing up I had a longer labia, and I seen porn from a young age because people neglected to hide it. >.< I always thought I was different and deformed. Surprisingly, after I had my first baby, my labia retracted? I'm not even sure how it happened. You can still see it, but it now doesn't look like something is trying to escape down there.
My inner labia and clit hang out more than most women and this started to happen before puberty for me. I used to be very self conscious about it when I was younger but I've learn to deal with it. My Dh calls them butterfly lips. lol