Quoting Amelia Margaret:" You just need to consider when you post that this is a site that is 99% women and and when a woman posts ... [snip!] ... We just don't expect it. So it's probably best to stay away from that sort of comment so as not to give out the heebee jeebies."

word.

Quoting Ecstasy:" Bahahahaha i did the same thing about 5 seconds ago to answer OP because i didn't know for sure either ... [snip!] ... a tiny wee bit, its just the outer lips you can see really. When i was pregnant though, swollen to the max! So uncomfie too. "

So what's the ideal? Just a slit?

I've gotten compliments on mine. So I guess it's good enough. Not like a give a crap, I'm married anyway lol.

Quoting Supafly★:" So what's the ideal? Just a slit? I've gotten compliments on mine. So I guess it's good enough. Not like a give a crap, I'm married anyway lol. "

In western society i think so?.. Like less is more?

To be honest, the chicks i saw last night on the documentary (she was having a labiaplasty done to remove some of her inner lips because she'd been teased etc)

I thought her vagina was actually quite nice looking  

If thats the case then i'd be hopeless with knowing what the 'ideal' is hahaha!!

I just think we come in all different shapes/sizes and we have to embrace it.

Im happy with mine, DH is happy with mine so i totally agree, IDC  

I never had any complaints so i suppose thats a bonus.

But seriously though.. do guys think their junk is gorgeous?.. I've seen some butt ugly wieners in my time, but they got the job done so im not complaining hahaha!  

Yes mine do, well not like hang out but they are visible and if you pull on them they are longer than my outer lips. They have always been like that. I didn't know it wasn't considered "normal" until I started watching porn, LOL. It doesn't bother me and I've never cared overly much if anyone thinks it's ugly, I don't think vagina are particularly attractive no matter the lip size and dangle, LMAO

Quoting Ecstasy:" In western society i think so?.. Like less is more? To be honest, the chicks i saw last night on the ... [snip!] ... junk is gorgeous?.. I've seen some butt ugly wieners in my time, but they got the job done so im not complaining hahaha!  "

Weiners are ugly and some are just freaking bizarre looking! lol. But I agree, if it gets the job done IDGAF.

I've also read somewhere that the inner lips are similar to the penis as in when you are aroused blood causes the inner lips to swell and grow slightly. The theory is that longer lips means that you have more feeling and more intense orgasms. Who knows how true all that is though. LOL

Quoting 3 little monsters:" Yes mine do, well not like hang out but they are visible and if you pull on them they are longer than ... [snip!] ... much if anyone thinks it's ugly, I don't think vagina are particularly attractive no matter the lip size and dangle, LMAO"

Thats the total misconception though, pornstars dont have 'normal/typical' vaginas..

Those women are having surgery to make themselves look neat etc for the camera/audience.. along with their boobs.

Nothing is real, not even their moans lol!

Your vagina sounds normal to me.

Quoting Amelia Margaret:" You just need to consider when you post that this is a site that is 99% women and and when a woman posts ... [snip!] ... We just don't expect it. So it's probably best to stay away from that sort of comment so as not to give out the heebee jeebies."

Fair enough - i doubt the site is 99% actual women though, this is the internet after all!   At least i am being honest - i am a guy. Actually the pic comment, i would never object if somebody wanted objective advice/opinion via a PM - i have done similar with my questions with some lovely people on here and been very grateful for the anonymous impartial advice.

Point taken though, i'll try to be more careful next time.  

Quoting Ecstasy:" Thats the total misconception though, pornstars dont have 'normal/typical' vaginas.. Those women are ... [snip!] ... the camera/audience.. along with their boobs. Nothing is real, not even their moans lol! Your vagina sounds normal to me."

Oh I know that now, haha. Even if my vagina wasn't normal it's serviced me well enough so I have no reason to complain, LOL

Quoting 3 little monsters:" I've also read somewhere that the inner lips are similar to the penis as in when you are aroused blood ... [snip!] ... is that longer lips means that you have more feeling and more intense orgasms. Who knows how true all that is though. LOL"

Yeah thats true.

In african society they pull their inner labia from a really young age so sex is more pleasurable etc.

They believe longer labia make you more womenly & help you to enjoy sex/please your man.  

I love their culture.. they even have 'sisters' who are assigned to teach you about sex etc before your active sexually.

They looked at a womens vagina (the presenter who was from holland) and they were so shocked that her inner lips werent long etc.. it was bizzar to them.

She thought theirs looked different, so it was an experience  

Its just our western culture.. we're so reserved & judgemental, its sad!

I always think about this when these types of topics are posted.


*warning if you have little ones around. you might not want them to see*

Quoting Ecstasy:" Yeah thats true. In african society they pull their inner labia from a really young age so sex is ... [snip!] ... looked different, so it was an experience   Its just our western culture.. we're so reserved & judgemental, its sad! "

Hahaha can you imagine a bunch of women sitting around bragging about how big and long their vagina are? LMAO Measuring it with a ruler. "Mine is 2 1/2 inches!" Romans considered big penises barbaric and gross, they liked them small. They were also fond of small boys so not the best comparison but weird how society views things sometimes.

Quoting 3 little monsters:" Hahaha can you imagine a bunch of women sitting around bragging about how big and long their vagina ... [snip!] ... liked them small. They were also fond of small boys so not the best comparison but weird how society views things sometimes. "

LOL they seriously do sit around and compare!

They even are encouraged to pull eachothers labia.. totally in a non sexual way, its just routine and a part of life for them.

It is weird how we all view things differently.

Anyway, time for me to stop ranting about vaginas hahaha!

Its 12.30am and im off to bed!

Quoting Piecey.:" I always think about this when these types of topics are posted. *warning if you have little ones around. you might not want them to see* "

Mine looks like 3 but with hair, LOL. I don't shave clean like that, it irritates the skin too much. I just keep it short and trimmed around the edges.

Mine doesn't look like any on the picture but I don't have labia minora.   I've gotten compliments on it but I wish I did. I personally like the way a vagina looks like with them. Mine looks so bare and boring. Lol