Quoting Devil's Advocate:" All I can say is either everything really IS fine or he's holding back on something. Either way, pressing ... [snip!] ... do it first. Even when you've been together forever. They always want to feel security when they open up like that. Man pride."
Yes man pride gets in the way of everything. And we talk about everything. Can't necessarily go out like we'd like to. We just have alot of financial troubles right now. Complete fail on electric. Got to come up with money for that. And we always try to find 1 night a week without any babies or anything going on. We talk all the time. He is a sensitive guy (even though you so wouldn't think it if you saw him). He was raised around women his whole life. His mom was a lesbian for almost 20 years....and his "Dad" is a woman.
But for some reason...the subject of sex is just hard to get him to talk about. I mean he's a freak when it comes down to it....but it's like he's reserved talking about it. I didn't know why he got mad at me for not letting him eat me out until it blew up one night in a drunken arguement. And I definitely don't want this situation to end up like that. BAD night.