re: Judgmental Mothers.

Quoting Shirley Maria:" Those are opinions, I don't see how you could base those as facts unless you actually knew me. "

I have zero desire to ever meet you so I'll just keep basing my opinion on you off of what I've seen of you in this and your other thread.

Quoting JiLLiAN.:" link us?"

Why? so you guys can critique my whole life?

Quoting Thisperyears:" I have zero desire to ever meet you so I'll just keep basing my opinion on you off of what I've seen of you in this and your other thread. "

You're obviously a very hateful person, I wish to meet you one day so I can laugh at what karma has done to you and your judgmental self.

Quoting Shirley Maria:" Why? so you guys can critique my whole life?"

no. I am bored... I thought you might of been smurfing with everyone. Your BG links back to FB anyways. lol

I hope you are trying to quit though...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Shirley Maria:</b>" You're obviously a very hateful person, I wish to meet you one day so I can laugh at what karma has done to you and your judgmental self."</blockquote>



What makes you think karma would do anything to her? Based on one little thread on BG? Lmao

Quoting Shirley Maria:" You're obviously a very hateful person, I wish to meet you one day so I can laugh at what karma has done to you and your judgmental self."

I'm not hateful, it just pisses me off when someone is so selfish that they look for reasons to not quit a habit that will harm their child and then get pissy and start stomping their feet when others who have experience with it try to tell them the truth.

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" no. I am bored... I thought you might of been smurfing with everyone. Your BG links back to FB anyways. lol I hope you are trying to quit though... "

I do still smoke, it's not alot maybe 5 a day. I try my hardest.. and apparently everyone thinks it's an excuse :/

You just don't get it. At all.
I was seriously not this stupid when I was a teenager.
I had sense.

I don't think you will ever get it, I don't think your brain is developed enough to get it. SO... good luck with that. I hope your child learns to never be anything like you.

Quoting Shirley Maria:" I do still smoke, it's not alot maybe 5 a day. I try my hardest.. and apparently everyone thinks it's an excuse :/ "

It's the way you're saying it.

You have to have better self control (no offense) 5 a day is still harmful :/ I was a smoker but I quit at 7 weeks. Everyone judging me made it easier. lol

You wouldn't want any regrets with this pregnancy. I think you can do it, if you try *harder.*

Quoting Thisperyears:" I'm not hateful, it just pisses me off when someone is so selfish that they look for reasons to not ... [snip!] ... child and then get pissy and start stomping their feet when others who have experience with it try to tell them the truth. "

I have not once gotten angry this entire time. I know the truth, I'm not ignorant because the only person I listen to is my doctor, a PROFESSIONAL, I don't care about your experience because obviously, like you guys have been telling me, not everyone is the same.. so your experiences really wouldn't help me any. Would they?..

Quoting Shirley Maria:" I have not once gotten angry this entire time. I know the truth, I'm not ignorant because the only person ... [snip!] ... like you guys have been telling me, not everyone is the same.. so your experiences really wouldn't help me any. Would they?.. "

Statistically, yes.

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" It's the way you're saying it. You have to have better self control (no offense) 5 a day is still harmful ... [snip!] ... judging me made it easier. lol You wouldn't want any regrets with this pregnancy. I think you can do it, if you try *harder.*"

I meant 5 at the most.. should have put that in there,.

Quoting Shirley Maria:" I have not once gotten angry this entire time. I know the truth, I'm not ignorant because the only person ... [snip!] ... like you guys have been telling me, not everyone is the same.. so your experiences really wouldn't help me any. Would they?.. "

Well considering you ASKED for experiences in your last thread, and when people told you the experiences they had or witnessed others having and when they weren't what you wanted to hear you had a little tantrum and made this whole new thread.

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Statistically, yes."

I will go and look up the statistics of my situation then.

Quoting Thisperyears:" Well considering you ASKED for experiences in your last thread, and when people told you the experiences ... [snip!] ... witnessed others having and when they weren't what you wanted to hear you had a little tantrum and made this whole new thread. "

This is really tiring.. my last post. I wanted stories yes.. I didn't want to be attacked for what I commented afterwards.. I didn't want a whole lecture on what I'm doing wrong, how I can fix it, and how much of a bad mother I'm going to be. read this (I'm not yelling I just can't seem to get this through your thick skulls) STORIES: NOTHING MORE, NOTHING LESS.. I don't know why that was so hard to understand in the beginning. I get it people voice their opinions but jesus christ do you really need to keep voicing them? I read it the first time and if I didn't want your advice then I don't want it now, so call me a spoiled brat, or a horrible person, because you don't know me.. and it doesn't bother me.