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re: Judgmental Mothers.

posted 20th Jan
Quoting Shirley Maria:" it's a simple question, if you don't want to answer you don't have to.. "

There are no positive repercussions to smoking cigarettes throughout your pregnancy. There are only negative health risks. Enjoy?
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I have 1 child & live in Savannah, Georgia
posted 20th Jan
Okay, so you want feedback on just being a young mom, and not the whole backstory you posted as well? If you are smoking throughout your pregnancy, you were getting stuff for that, not your age, except in the ones who were saying you aren't even old enough to buy cigarettes for yourself, in which case they were right. Grow some thick skin and get over it, sweetie. If you think it was simply about your AGE, you don't get it.
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I have 4 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Dothan, Alabama
posted 20th Jan
It has nothing to do with your age, you're too young to be buying them and you shouldn't be making excuses on why you can't quit, that's why you get smurf. Now quit whining.
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I have 3 kids & live in South Carolina
posted 20th Jan
Quoting tinana +2:" lol "

ROFL
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I'm due May 13th (a girl) & live in Duluth, Minnesota
posted 20th Jan
please tell me your kidding
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I have 2 kids & live in Gresham, Oregon
posted 20th Jan
Quoting Shirley Maria:" it's a simple question, if you don't want to answer you don't have to.. "


We clearly answered this, so that leads me to believe that we all WANTED to answer.
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posted 20th Jan
<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" You're being judged for smoking not your age. lol"</blockquote>



 


All mothers no matter their age get judged for smoking while pregnant I'm afraid. It sucks because most pregnant women can't just up and quit and some doctors recommend either weaning or just cutting back during their pregnancy because quitting can actually cause more stress on them and baby. And it's not good.
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Seven Hills, Australia
posted 20th Jan
Quoting ღ.ღ.ღ:" It has nothing to do with your age, you're too young to be buying them and you shouldn't be making excuses on why you can't quit, that's why you get smurf. Now quit whining."


exactly. PLENTY of women quit cold turkey when they find out. or they cut back a lot, depending how far along they are and under recommendation of their health care provider, because babies do get addicted to the nicotine and can suffer withdrawal symptoms, OP.
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I have 2 kids & live in New York
posted 20th Jan
Literally zero people on here care that you're a young mom. They DO give a smurf that you're risking your child's health just to keep up a habit that has no positive aspects to it.
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I have 1 child & live in Portland, Maine
posted 20th Jan
Quoting Michael Westen:" We clearly answered this, so that leads me to believe that we all WANTED to answer."

*raises hand... i wanted to answer.
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I have 3 kids & live in Longview, Texas
posted 20th Jan
Uh...no. I had my daughter at 16 and I've never gotten smurf for it, because I wasn't a smurfing idiot.
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 20th Jan
I want to know how you're only 17 and so addicted to cigarettes that you can't quit during your pregnancy? How long have you been smoking? That's disgusting :/
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I have 3 kids & live in Indiana
posted 20th Jan
Quoting Nigel Thornberry:" It has nothing to do with you being a teen mom, it has to do with the fact that smoking during pregnancy ... [snip!] ... teen mom and making a point of mentioning your age will only make it worse though, you're just a mom your age doesn't matter. "


This !!!
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I have 3 kids & live in Colorado
posted 20th Jan
Every pregnancy, every baby, everyone is different. One person could chain smoke all 9 months and baby be fine others might not have such luck. That's a risk you need to weigh, and remember the decision not only affects you. As for people being judgemental, it's human nature. Common sense says cigarettes are bad for your health and obviously still so when pregnant, but theres abother life you are risking. If you dont want judgment I suggest not posting publicly bc its bound to occur.
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I'm due December 1st, have 1 child & live in CHERRY POINT, North Carolina
posted 20th Jan
Nobody was judging your age, twit!  
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I have 3 kids & live in Venezuela
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