okay....so my church has decided to throw me a baby shower for my little girl. They called me up to ask what days would be best. I gave them two different Sundays in February to choose from and said anytime on those days would work. We collectively decided to do a guy and girl shower so my husband could feel like a part of the pregnancy. Well yesterday at church, my husband confirmed going to an evangelism seminar thing for 10 days (The church is paying for it) and he already got the time off, so he can't reschedule that. I get a call today that they've decided the best date to do the shower is the Sunday after he leaves.
I guess my question is: Would it be alright for me to ask them to change the date (making it two weeks earlier than what they've decided...) or just go to the shower by myself?