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Do you think all bullies...?

posted 20th Jan
Be punished for their actions or should these kids be offer help to guide them in the right direction?
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 20th Jan
i think it depends on how serious the bullying is. if it's severe they should be punished and have to go to some sort of class or something. if it's teasing or something along those lines they should have to go to a class or w.e.
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I'm due December 13th, have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Ohio
posted 20th Jan
I think they should be counseled and maybe somehow be placed in the victim's shoes for a day. Kids are mean and egocentric. They don't realize how their words/actions affect others.
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I'm due July 31st, have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Indiana
posted 20th Jan
I think they should be punished and also given the guidance to overcome bullying.
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I have 1 child & live in Utah
posted 20th Jan
Quoting Mommy2Kay:" Be punished for their actions or should these kids be offer help to guide them in the right direction?"

I think both depending on the circumstances. Serious bullying deserves a hardcore "Wake the smurf up before this kid commits suicide" type interaction.
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I have 1 child & live in Golden, Colorado
posted 20th Jan
Quoting *Turtles*:" I think they should be punished and also given the guidance to overcome bullying."
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I have 2 kids & live in Denton, Texas
posted 20th Jan
I think in situations where there are clear cases of bullying that the child and parent should be forced to go to some classes. Some parents are in such denial of their child's actions they need to hear it from others. I worked with a girl who was such a bully and super smurffy to everyone and when her mom was approached with clear cut evidence of her daughter's cyber bullying she didn't give a smurf and called racism.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 20th Jan
I firmly believe the old adage, "hurt people, hurt people." I think they should be punished, but also counseled on why they bully people. I think most bullies are acting out.
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I have 2 kids & live in Grapevine, Texas
posted 20th Jan
A little of both. While guidance should certainly be used but also they need to reap the consaquences of their actions.
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I live in Florida
posted 21st Jan
Both.
And I also think the parents should have to as well. In my experience the majority of bullies are spoiled smurfs with smurffy parents who don't teach them the value of human life. They're the types who hate gays, hate other races, hate women etc. People like that shouldn't even be allowed to raise children imo.
I was raised in a very tolerant household and was never a big bully or anything. I think most kids do bully on some level, but with parental guidance most of them see that smurf is not okay. I was raised to respect everyone regardless of race, religion, sex/gender, weight, mental/physical abilities etc. Smurffy parents contribute greatly to smurffy kids.
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posted 21st Jan
I actually think punishment is generally ineffective & we do it to others so WE feel better, not so that they will change. That doesn't mean "do nothing". It means do something constructive, like classes & counseling & a lot of supervision until the child appears to be making progress & can be allowed to be trusted.
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I have 2 kids & 8 angel babies & live in Climax, Michigan
posted 21st Jan
Some what both... but I'm a big proponent of restitution/restorative justice over pure corporal punishment.

For example-- I don't think a 3 week school suspension is going to do much to deter a bully (especially since many kids see that type of thing as a reward, not a punishment).
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I'm due September 11th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Syracuse, New York
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